NO SYMPATHY FOR TEEN MOTHERS

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"Twisty little passages, all alike" is a reference to Adventure, the very first computer adventure game, before the days of graphics...it was all text. No gigaflop graphics processors and high res displays....just teletype terminals.

This post has come a little bit off topic..."twisty little corridors",stones and weight,and a whole bunch of people say how smooches is such a mean person...lol.Anyways,I think that silligirls is somewhat right,but sympathy is always needed in this type of matter.I respect the women that raise a child all by themselves without a husband or bf.Imagine how hard it would be supporting a child by yourself?I would NEVER leave my gf no matter how hard it would get.It is actually pretty sad how the fathers just leave like that...I actually pity them.Oh ya,Smooches I dont think you are a bad person.

Its called hijacking a thread :wink:

Hijacking is not a very nice thing ot do...

Nope, hijacking is not nice at all.

So no more naked twister?

We need to play naked Twister somewhere else, preferably the Naked Twister forum. May I suggest a color dot-map with a non-slip surface?

Naked Twister!?...Sounds like fun

OK, just oil up and meet us in the other forum.

I read over what I originally wrote and yes, it was a little harsh, but I did felt strongly about it at the time...and I still feel that way to a certain extent. I think when I was writing that, I was frustrated with the people in my life. I still believe teens have no business having sex. My whole complaint I think, were my friends who complained all the damn time about how hard it is. I guess to you all, in those moments, I was suppose to sympathize, but in me, it registers as "I don't know what to tell you, Suck it up and stop complaining". I know their are always exception to the rule. Like charleigh. Her situation is different, but unfortunately in the US, we don't have the resources she has. So her burden has been lessened a little. It would be nice, but it's not reality here in the US. I know I might get flak for this, but it mostly simple-minded people who rationalize reckless behavior and or wanting to have babies at a young age. What a society we live in!

well you are intitled to ur oppinion and what u said at first was in a harsh manner but i did think when i read it 'this girl sounds angry' as u said its harder in the US coz there are loads more obsticles in hte way. i think your initial point was that the people you object to are those who think its glamerous to have a baby and then cant cont cope afterwards. thats a lack of family planning that parents need at any age- however it is more common among teenagers.
so yeah i see ur point...i think...kinda. and ur intitled to your view so if u believe it, stick to it...just try not to be so...angry when you write because what you put in the heat of the moment can be taken VERY badly by others which maybe was some of the problem.

Very good SteveA - I knew you were an educated fellow

Hey there hun.. I think you're a great kid, really I do. I think you are full of innocence, which is a good thing don't get me wrong. I think the problems with the posts simply ly on your wording. Sometimes sarcasm is not read easily as one can hear it. Best thing I can say is just say what you mean and don't rely on using sarcasm. And if you want to be sarcastic, one thing I fine that helps is doing this after your sarcastic comment: Sarcasm. I know sounds stupid but will save a lot of time explaining yourself later.hugs Don't be too hard on yourself either. You're a really good kid from most things I read.

I just thought I'd add my little story here. I'm an only child, when I was born my parents were 14 and 15\. They may have not wanted me at the time or anything..but they took full care of me, my dad finished high school, and got a pretty nice paying job around here, my mom switched to home schooling. We were never on welfare or even had hardcore financial diffculties (that I can remember) I've looked though the baby books and my dad and mom were in every single picture, reguardless of wether or not they wanted me, they kept me. I'm proud of them both, not just my mom, for not handing me off to another realtive. Problems from this really didn't arise until after my mom's death. There's a big custody battle between my dad and my grandfather (my mom's dad) he claims my dad is an unsuited parent, and claims he raped my mom and doesn't deserve to keep me. I guess that got a bit off topic. My personal views on the matter now? I myself don't want to have a child now, or anytime soon, and therefor I'm still a virgin, but I think that's mostly because of the hosehold I grew up in...my parents having me young...taught me that although if I repeated what they did they'd still love me and take me in but they'd be disappointed and hurt. I'll end this now. I just wanted to say that both my parents were teens..but some how managed to come through and make a great life for me. and I love them as much as they love me. thats all

wow, someone has a chip on her sholder.

you are really heartless.

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Your story is encouraging. Just for the record, when I replied to you on another thread and said "woah, you had a kid when you were 13?" I didn't mean it as negative thing. Still...dang, you must have a very supportive network of friends and family because that would be so incredibly difficult!!

Just out of curiosity, did the first child influence your decision to have a 2nd? Maybe you wanted a "playmate" that was close in age for the first?

Thanks for spamming the screen.. you think maybe you could put all your thoughts into one post????