A turn of events

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Hi again fans :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:
It's been a month or two again, and again I'm back...but this time with possibly good news.
A friend has introduced me to one of her friends online. We've been talking and we've really hit it off. We have almost identical interests and we talk for hours on end. She is REALLY nice to me as well...problem is, I can't help but feel a bit dubious (probably due to my generally cruddy luck thusfar). I'm meeting her on Tuesday (with my friend who introduced us as a mediator). It's supposed to just be 3 friends going for a walk, but I can't help feel there is an alterior motive behind it.

Anyway, back to the dubiosity of it all...
She's being very very nice to me..and I don't know whether it's serious or not.
Tonight she claimed that talking to me makes her the happiest she's ever been, and that she's smiling all the time whenever she is talking to me, and that she dreams of me and stuff...
it's kinda overwhelming. Hence why I'm a little cautious of it all...
But then I kinda feel the same way when i talk to her. She seems to know exactly what sorta compliments I need to make me feel good, and I'm always smiling too...but that's because she said it...so I dunno

Now you see why i'm a bit confused..
so, what do you think? What should I do?

Well i would take it seriously. If ur friend is a good enough friend they wouldn't set u up with someone to fuck with u. I say go for it and don't think twice. Even if it was a joke her conversations with you are real, that is unless she wrote a whole script which i highly doubt. Just be her friend when the three of you hang out and maybe it can spark into something more.

See, my main source of cautiousness is because over a year ago now (woo!) with L, she was also nice to me (probably focused more on the sexual side of things though) but in the end it all turned out to be a plan to use me as a cuddle bitch whenever her crappy boyfriend treated her like ass.Now I know that this new girl is single, so that can't be the option, but I'm always looking for the alterior motive Feel like I've lost all trust in girls. I am scared of them, and that's for definate.

Don't expect the worst, my man. Good things do happen, and I can tell you that the vast majority of women (like men) have pure intentions. It might work out, or it might not. Just head into it with an open mind.

maybe she is being a little fake and there is an alterior motive. Maybe its that she likes you and it tring to seem too good and into you when noone is really there 100 percent if you no what i mean. I say just take the chance and dont think the worst. If the worst happens oh well better luck next time, but just imagine if the best happens!

i met a girl online. We're just like what you've described. Haven't met yet, but I'm looking forward to it.

yeah, i the same, with a guy that is. meeting the guy on tuesday and it very scary!

Maybe I'm being paranoid, but make sure that you guys meet your Internet people in a public place. I'm sure they're harmless, but better safe than sorry...

well there's absolutely no question to whether this is genuine now.I don't think some of the things she has said could ever be thought up without meaning it.It's the most beautiful thing ever, and I can't believe it. I'm lost for thoughts at the moment because everything is so perfect!It took us about an hour to say goodnight, because we just didn't want to leave one another.I'm so happy right now!

internet relationships prevail! :grin:

Excellent news. That's completely awesome, sad Perhaps you'll have to change you're name to happybuttrue

Im glad things are looking up for you! Im truely happy for ya.

sunnysunshine! I haven't seen you on here for a while!Its so good to hear from you! Thanks for the support

Things have changed dramatically over the past few hours.So much so that we've had to accelerate our meeting until tomorrow. We've spent 6 solid hours talking over webcam tonight.Firstly, we admitted that we considered each other boyfriend/girlfriend. This was a good start.However, that wasn't good enough for either of us, we're both absolutely crazy about each other, so much so that I'm actually feeling pain.I'm scared that this is hurtling towards what is a grey area for me, and i'm even too scared to say the word here because of what it means, but she has said she feels like she's heading that way too. I know many of you won't approve of this, but we seem to fit together exactly, and i don't really care anyway - because this is really important to me...anyway, as an unexpected side effect of this, i am experiencing a MASSIVE aching in my balls, and i'm producing precum by the gallon. is this normal?

hey man what up? umm sorry bout gettin to this so late but the exact same thing is happening for me atm man. i know it does seem hard too because my last relationship i was used then dumped... but man i things will work out just great for you man i mean me and her feel the same way about each other as u do with her and so far it has been great... i wish you luck man and hope for the best for you

Well for what I'm figuring...I think since u to are calling each other bf/gf...then you shouldn't worry, the one thing to remember is the word NO...if she does something u don't like say NO if she says NO then stop. Hold hands, hug, maybe even kiss, just make sure u both have fun...

She told me that as soon as she sees me she wants to be in my arms, and that she'll most likely cry tears of joy when she gets there. She says some of the most beautiful things, I feel like I'm wrapped up inside joy.I've never felt this strongly for anyone before, especially after such a short amount of time.I can't wait until tonight!

I never realized how many people were in a situation like this.I wish the best for you happybuttrue.

I'm prepared now Its not far away I have a rose, a card, and a pack of tissues because she said she might be crying tears of joy!It's finally happening for me!

lol. Go get her big guy.