Well this morning when we woke up she totally blanked me, and again when we went out this evening. All good things must come to an end...
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A turn of events
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blanked you? what does that mean?
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As in, acted as if I pretty much wasn't even there.Turns out she needed a bit of space, but things seem ok for the moment
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You do seem quite needy. Keep good communication with her and know what she wants. But don't bug her about everything. Avoid asking questions like "why didn't you call me last night like you usually do?"
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The thing is, I'm not the one that says things like that, she is.I went to bed quite early last night, and at 2am I got a text from her saying "Are you not talking to me anymore?" so I came online for a bit and chatted to her. But when I did talk to her she seemed annoyed again, which was odd.Maybe she's just going through a tough patch.
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she's kind of odd... but your like that too, so best of luck!
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Its the same again today, shes blanking me.I'm going to leave it until she makes an attempt to contact me.Otherwise it seems like this relationship is dead.
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*confused* :confused:
What exactly do you and her usually talk about? ... err try to talk about?
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In reply to:
We women are moody, but not childish
Some of ya are. :grin: But gotta love em'.
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We never had sex. We tried twice on separate nights, but neither time I was "ready" and the second time, when I was almost "ready" she shut herself up and wouldn't let me even try.
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It sounds like she is moody and not sure what she wants. It's certainly a caution sign; but then, you are feeling your way too.
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i don't think you guys should be trying to have sex anyways, you are very emotional, and this doesn't sound like a relationship yet
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I agree Amanda.
Anyway, we had a chat last night to talk about everything.
She told me that she doesn't want to break up, and that she just wants space.
However, she also said that she is either getting a second job or going back to college. She already works nights which means I barely see her as it is, but if she does do this, then I'll be lucky if I see her once a month! That's a LOT of space for me to give :confused: -
like I said before, you seem quite needy. If she's more independent and spacy, then she's probably not the kind of girl for you.
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I want to not be needy though. There aren't any girls out there who are like me, and I hate it.Its a problem that I have, and I've established this from what you've said. I need to fix it before I scare her off as well
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I don't know how you can "fix" it, it's just who you are. There are girls out there who are very needy just like you.
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She's very confusing though. She says she needs her space, but she seems to get worried when I give it to her. I only sent her one message today to let her know that my uni work went ok, and she sent one back 45 mins ago (1am) acting as if I was ignoring her Bleh
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If you ever figure her out, let me know. lol. That's one confusing chick.
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Don't think she's worried when you give her space, she's just missing the constant attention.
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Needing space and missing constant attention... that is one confusing chick! lmao