Just a different sort of post!
Well, My sister Natasha (25) hired a nopaire/nanny to look after my niece and nephew. Well the nopaires name is Anastasia and she is Russian (speaks english). She is 18 years old and I am 14.
When I first met her I did not really like her yet now I do a lot more. Here is a description so to speak.
Day One: We just talked for like 6 hours about her and where she came from
Day Two: I taught her how to play pool and we talked a lot again. We all went to dinner with my sister & her boyfriend.
Day Three (Just me & Her) : She was asleep most of the day and when she woke up we went down and got chicken takeaway which was good. We then watched a movie and she enjoyed it - we talked alot again. Then after that we went at 1am to find a shop which sold ice cream, we walked for around an hour without any success. We also watched TV & me and her laughed really badly. Then she left and we just said bye.
My sister says that she does not talk at all yet as you can see she will never stop talking to me. So I dont know what to do next. She is in Austria at the moment and we have arranged for me to pick her up at the train station and just me and her are going to go around London for the day.
It does not seem she wants to hug & kiss but she is really open and "close". Like she sits really close to me on the couch!
So, what should I do. I would really like to go out with her. Should I drop it or pursue it??? Thanks for any replies
Personally I would scope out the situation alittle more before doing anything. Personally it sounds to me she enjoys the companionship of someone to talk to. If she wants more than friends I am sure she'll let you know, but until you know for sure I wouldn't ruin what sounds like a good friendship.
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I think its easy for people to let their emotions take control when they are with the same person for long periods at a time. It really seems like shes just being nice to you. Of course she would talk to you a lot, if not she'd probably be bored out of her mind. I'm sure if it was another person you spent that much time with you would have this same feeling. Dont do anything just act normal. If she wants something "more" out of you she'll probably act on it but i doubt she has those kinds of feelings for a 14year old.
She's in another country and away from her friends and I'm sure she appreciates being able to talk to you. She may feel more relaxed and open and able to talk with you because you're young and not in a position of responsibility over her - she may feel less worried about making mistakes in her English with you.
There's nothing in what you describe so far that suggests any romantic interest in you. She obviously feels comfortable and friendly with you, but if she were to feel you were coming on to her it would put her in a very awkward position indeed.
I'm in total agreement. She just enjoys the company, that's all.