How far up is the prostate

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ProvincetownIt's more of a resort town. And unfortunately, real estatate prices have been rising rapidly there recently. And as they're building more condos, the area is slowly losing it's charater, like Miami Beach. It's too bad. Unfortunately, a lot of gay-friendly cities now have a hight cost of living.If you like a more countrified life, "artsy" places like Peterborough, NH (yes, New Hampshire) are good, as are a lot of college towns.

Very true. But once I finish my new degree and my lover finishes his degree, I think we'll be pretty set financially. Plus we both have big dreams of owning our own business. We just haven't really decided what yet lol.

actually, Waterloo On is a pretty liberal and artsy city.
Mostly due to the 2 universities. It also has an "uptown" as opposed to it's twin city which has a grimy "downtown"

I haven't been there personally, but I think college towns like Athens, GA are good (any place that produces the B-52's and REM has something going on).

I find its impossible for me to position my hand and insert a finger in a way that the finger will be pointing forward towards my penis... Pretty near impossible. What tricks if any do you use? We're talking here about you doing it yourself, not someone doing it for you, thats easier.. An illustration would surely help!

Well I have no illustrations, but your prostate is about 1.5-2 inches inside from the rectum. One technique I have found is to actually use your thumb. When you reach around you can insert the thumb and use the "come here' motion with you thumb. You should be able to feel your prostate (Walnut shaped). I find that to be the easier way other than using toys.

Hope that helps some.

Ah! I wuz using the pointing finger... Yeah I can see how it might be possible using the thumb, but I wasnt aware its long enough Say, you know about Aneros, right? I've had some limited success with that toy.

One more question -- do you have a hand preference, for better reachability?And thanks for the idea... cool

Aneros? No sorry not familiar with that sorry.And give the thumb trick a try, I think you'll enjoy it! =-D

I hope this is allowed... Here goes:Aneros: http://aneros.com/Aneros discussion forum: http://aneros.com/forum.phpDefinitely gonna try the thumb

Hmm that Anero thing is very interesting gonna have to look more into that.

I went to the mens room and tried this thumb trick. Obviously I cant lay down so I wasnt perpahs in the same position as I'd be in laying down. Standing (or crouching) my right hand thumb only goes in as far as the first knuckle, so its not reaching anything interesting. And I strained my right shoulder a bit so now I feel bruised :) Feh, what we won't do for a bit of pleasure

LOL! Well when you're at home just lay down bring your butt alittle in the air and go to town LoL. =-D

OK lets see if I got it: lay on your tummy, arch your back so your stomach and penis region is off the bed up in the air, then try to insert your thumb? That's the gist of it?

Well you can try that way.. but I was talking more like laying on your back and list you butt up.. you can use a pillow to help with that.

There's a little problem with that way, since the only way you're going to reach your bum with the thumb positioned forward is if your hand is underneath (behind, actually) your back. So I can't see how laying on your back would make that possible

LOL I dunno how to explain it, you'll just gave to experiment with positions hehe. =-D

You will feel a bit of a hard, yet semi-soft bulge on the intestine wall.Don't worry about putting a dildo or something up you. It isn't a "gay" thing. A lot of straight males do it as well. You have an organ that can extend your pleasureable experiences, why not use it?

I've tried stimulating my prostate several times but whenever I have tried I didn't experience those feelings mentioned. Also, my finger does smell bad afterwards and usually picks up a bit of fecal matter.

Don't worry, some people will sell you the idea that prostate massage is the best experience ever, but it depends on the individual. Myself, I could never bring myself even remotely close to orgasm this way, although it still felt good in its own way. Now, coupled with stroking my penis, it does make for a stronger orgasm.

As for the smell/shit on your finger, that's part of the deal as far as anal play is concerned. Unless you have an enema right before, you never know what you'll pickup on the way, although feces are normally kept farther up in the colon, and thus your rectum should be relatively empty. But yeah, bits of shit are not uncommon. You can either have an enema like I said, use a glove or simply train yourself to be a bit less disgusted by shit.