How far up is the prostate

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i herd its like the womens g-spot sooooo im looking for it :P any tips, im not gay or bi so i aint sticking any type of dildo up my ass/\Just so u know/\

Somewhere about a fingers length withing the rectum

First, take a look at the Male Anatomy link under Male Genitalia. it will give you a pretty good idea.You should be able to touch it with your index finger thru your anus. It will be on the front wall (towards your penis) and will feel a little hard. Rub around with the end of your finger a little and you should be able to feel it and feel your feeling it.They say that you can have an orgasm by just stimulating here. My self I find it difficult to reach on my own, but have gotten close enough to know that it does at least make me cum much harder if masterbating while touching it.If you don't want to do it yourself (though I am not sure why you wouldn't since it is just self stimulation, not anything homosexual about it, and no different than stroking your own dick) sometime have your girl friend/wife give it a try for you. They can probably reach it easier than you can and you can just deal with the feelings instead of worring about all the technique.

In reply to: You should be able to touch it with your index finger thru your anus. It will be on the front wall (towards your penis) and will feel a little hard. Rub around with the end of your finger a little and you should be able to feel it and feel you’re feeling it.They say that you can have an orgasm by just stimulating here. My self I find it difficult to reach on my own, but have gotten close enough to know that it does at least make me cum much harder if masturbating while touching it Dude, First off, I would like to say that there is nothing gay about stimulating your own ass. So if you want to use something that is vibrating... Use it if it feels good!!!Anyway, I came on the doctor’s hand when he gave me the prostate check with his middle finger, during a total physical exam that I had to take for work. . I was so embarrassed about it. He said not to worry that it happens sometimes. I tell you though…. It sure felt awesome to shoot a load that size and feel that good without getting a hard on. It was just incredible.

Wow Roc that would be pretty incredible, but yeah very embarassing hehe.I have seen a few porn where the guy is stimulating the prostate and cuming without touching himself. I have also been able to get an ex to cum once while I was fucking him without him touching himself, sure does wonders for the self esteme hehe.

wow so its possible to cum without having an erection?? thats something might have to try someday...how much do prostate exams cost? :grin:

Hey Eddie, Yes, it does wonders for the self esteem. To be able to make someone else cum just from hitting that special spot. I too, have had that happen to me and so has it happened with my partner. It happens every now and then and is still intense. I would not recommend going to the doctor just to have your prostrate checked to see if you can shoot a load. Although, it does give a whole new meaning to making you cum with one finger…LOL

In reply to: give a whole new meaning to making you cum with one finger LOL sure does. My partner has came close to making me orgasm (by me bottoming of course) without me touching myself but stupid me everytime I get to the point I make him stop because the sensation is so intense. I know makes no sense lol.

ya know, yall all call your boyfreinds ""Partners"" heehee..... everyone knows that means a sexual freind of the same sex, why don;t yall just callem boyfreinds, it isn;t like anyone on here is 100% straight anyway...

I thought "partner" means the person you're romantically involved with, regardless of either person's gender. For instance, if you've lived with someone for 20 year and have three children, a house, and a dog, it seems like you're more than "boyfriend" and "girlfriend".

well all the guys who've posted and said "partners" ended up saying "he" which meant the partner was a guy.

Maybe they've been together for a long time and live as a real couple. Gay people can do that, you know.

I had a gay couple as neighbors. If one of them grew his hair longer and wore skirts, you'd think they were a run-of-the-mill married couple (it was in Massachusetts, so for all I know they were married). They had a home, an SUV, and a daughter. It didn't make sense to think of them as boyfiends.

im not saying gay people can;t be married. I'm saying that "partners" i think is a code word for if your a man and your talking about your husband. I don;t think a man wan;ts to say "my boyfreind" or "my husband" even if he is gay. I just think that "partners" is a word that doesn;t make being gay as embarrasing. But im say people should just say boyfreind or husband and not worry about what people think.

Gays can only be married in one state in the U.S., and I disagree with your premise. My friends who live together often refer to their partner as their partner. It's not a euphemism. If you've been living with someone you're having sex with for ten years, "boyfriend" just doesn't cut it.

On the other hand, "significant other" is a euphemism.

do u put ur hand like, thru ur legs or round a leg?

I've always considered "partner" to indicate someone you are living with and romantically involved with, but not married to. I've heard it often used of people of the opposite sex. When someone moves in, they change from boyfriend or girlfriend to partner.

Exactly!

Well I mix it up..soemtimes I call him my BF and sometimes my partner. Either way I consider him me other half (sometimes the better half, but that's another story hehe).

I always call my other half my other half - see LOL cos thats what he is, even tho he was boyfriend, fiancee and now husband............partner also is a good one cos hes that in all things

Since you are both whole people, you can call each other "my other whole" (and no pun is intended).