Cant come

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i masturbate for about 5 minutes but i cant get myself to cum is this normal?and can i get some tips on how to?

**masterbate for longer? LOL ** :grin:

yeah, set aside a full afternoon.

kidding aside, be patient, it'll come

um. How old are you? Have you ever cum before? That's kinda important info.When I was 13 I couldn't figure it out for the life of me.

I've never maaged to come while masturbating. I must be doing it the wrong way because I do get wet dreams, so I know that I can come.

there really isn't a "wrong way" although there are a couple of old jokes about it.

im 16 and i have wet dreams and errections but i just cant comei also get that pre cum stuff when i have a massive stiffy tho

Just keeeeeepppp going! Don't stop when you think you can't handle it or when it gets sensive. Go for 10, 15, maybe 20 min!

I was the same until I was 19(!). I think my subconscious was stopping it because I was so uptight.

If you have precum you should also have cum, just keep rubbing and it`ll happen.

i am 13... have never come or wet dream..is this normal

Yes, it's very normal.It shouldn't be long. Hang in there.

yeah, don't worry about it, it'll happen. I started over a yr ago, and just recently stopped having dry 'gasms.

There`s no set time as to how long it takes someone to start cumming, sometimes i cum in something like 1 minute other times can take me maybe 15 minutes.
Just empty your mind and don`t think about cumming and keep rubbing for as long as it takes, and believe me, it`ll happen.

hi there, im also 18 years old and have never managed to cum from masturbation. i have had wet dreams and have ejaculated but my sperm looked a light greyish colour, not what id expect to be "normal". i have masturbated for 20+ minutes and got kinda bored because i havent managed to cum. sometimes i can feel it gettin ready but then the feelin goes and sometimes i can actually pee, its really hard but sometimes i can pee. it worries me that i cant ejaculate and it even makes my girlfriend feel bad cos she cant get me to either. any help would be appreciated thx

A light greyish colour sounds normal to me. It's not usually white like paint - more usually like a standard frosted light bulb.

I remember the first time I cummed... I was 12 years old, and I got this sudden urge to fuck everything... It was odd, I was home alone, and I was humping the pillows, and playing with my dick for about an hour before I realised it, then just sat there and beat my meat for about an hour straight. I couldn't stop even though my hand hurt quite a bit. So basically, it took me about 2-3 hours for me to cum for the first time. Now, I can somewhat control/pace myself if I want to last longer, but if I go straight the most I can stay is for about 5-15 minutes.

i get kinda bored after a while tho and the good thoughts go from my head. the feeling comes then goes pretty quick when i feel like i need a really bad pee. then i sometimes get a little piss like fluid come out and the feeling goes

I haven't so far...I'm hoping too soon. I suppose thats the best part, when Cum comes?

Wasn't all that special to me the first time. I mean, I was glad cause I knew I was progressing normally, but for some reasons the orgasms seemed a little more intense when I didn't cum.