How do i become more social and more

---

Also i put up some words from a popular casualties song and i was gonna see if you knew the words but you didnt. and you have a casulties shirt on but they suck...

I'm not trying to say that you're bad or that I'm good. But you have to admit, going from Shrewsbury to Mormon Country is kind of...interesting. I was just surprised that religious ideas and such didn't come across when you spoke to each other, before you went. It sounds like there was a disconnect in values. Maybe you have the same kind of disconnect with your girlfriend.

I'll tell you one thing: Where I live ain't anything like Provo. Neither are most big cities in the U.S., epecially on the coasts.

All your posts have been one liners. And I dont I need to read the lyrics to understand most of their lyrics since they yell fucking tons and he is mexican. The Casualties kick ass you pussy, congratulations you know one of the bands I listen to and 1 of the 23 band shirts i have lamer. If you think they suck why do you know the lyrics? I never took the time to read them but you aparently did.

He juat decided to get all preachy at me and when I decided I wasnt going to take his stupid advice he got all pissed off saying "you never listen to people blah blah". I just dont belive he has the right to tell me what to belive. With my gf she called and asked if she could kiss stache, and I was like "NO dont do ANYTHING with ANYONE just wait for me to get there yeah?" and she agreed and promised she wouldnt then fucked a girl. Her excuse was "when im drunk im a differant person" so i told her she had an alcohol probelem and shouldnt be drinking if she cant control what she does.

Is there any way you'll ever be able to trust her again?

Yeah I could but just the thought of her makes me sick now. Im going to a huge party on friday so I'm hoping to meet somoeone nice there.

\>if I wanted to be original and differant in my apperance I would go around dressed up as scooby doo in a superman cape and saw off my arms and glue them to my ass hole.
Okay, that was funny! LMAO...

And pretty damn origonal! How many guys do you see with their sawed off arms attached to their ass hole. You would need to make specuial trousers as the downside, if you dont want to cut off your arms borrow your friends!

Exactly your just a dumbass poser. "they yell fucking tons and he is mexican"? what the fuck is that? all stupid ass punk bands yell. and the casualties fucking suck man. how can you think their sick if you dont even know what they are about? all they fucking sing about is how "punk" they are and how much they drink when actually jorge (the singer if you didnt know, which you prolly dont) is a pussy when it comes to drinking, my friend drank with them at an after show party, and they make a whole fucking thing and clothes about "the underground army" when they didnt even think of it, the threats made that song and the casualties compleaty rip it off and make all this stupid merchandise off it. if that isnt compleatly lame i dont know what is. oh and i know the lyrics because when i first got into punk i listend to the casualties and i read their lyrics becasue i wanted to know what they sang about and i thought they were pretty dumb afterwards. Your prolly the type that listens to the career soldiers, cheap sex and dumbass shit like that and i bet you own shirts of them too.

Don't insult the TV Character.. Dr.House is to good for that!

I have read the 2 cds of the casualties I have bought, for the punx and underground army. I downloaded the rest and dont have the time like you obviously do to read all the lyrics because I have more forfilling things to do with my life. Youre a cunt not all punk bands yell, tho I like alot who do but I CAN actualy understand them, like the unseen, the filaments, kill your idols, minor threat, stockyard stotics, strap onz, the exploited. And fucking tons more. I dont particualy like minor threats lyrics because i think straight edge is for pussys, but not all their songs are about straight edge. I listen to german punk/ska fuck knows what they are saying but as long as the musics good and not emo I dont care. Unlike you I dont need to go out and go "Oi oi oi guys look how punk I am, Im so not a poser". I like punk rock and dont waste my time with fucking useless labels, or wasting time only listening to the bands that make me look more punk. I have a broad taste in music and like a few bands from other genres except punk. I havnt even heared of career soldiers, cheap sex probrably because they are shite, I bet you like them and thats how you know about them. "they yell fucking tons and he is mexican" yeah he talks like a mexican he looks like a mexican and is a mexican and sings like one too fucking get over it im from england and have troubble understanding the accent.

>all stupid ass punk bands yell.

now whos the fucking pussy, does loud angry music make you cry? I bet you just listen to the ramones all day and think youre so hardcore and then go tell your friends about how much you can drink and how many squat thrusts you can do and how you kicked your milkmans ass for delivering the wrong milk.

>my friend drank with them at an after show party,

Wouldnt that make your friend a poster too?

>and they make a whole fucking thing and clothes about "the underground army" when they didnt even think of it, the threats made that song and the casualties compleaty rip it off and make all this stupid merchandise off it.

Think I give a fuck? Boo fucking hoo, if you care so much and you are such a big man go kick their ass and quit bitching.

I honestly dont give a fuck if you think I'm a poser, what is this some kind of whos more punk compatition? I dont fucking care, I just go out have fun and listen to music that I LIKE not what other people say is punk and whats not. Why dont you think for yourself and now what your other "punk friends" tell you, youre just basicaly a trendy. Trendys follow everyone else, the do whats cool and what they think will make them fit in. What would your other punk freinds beat you up if you put on the casualties? Look I'm labling you now, you Trendy cunt!

Now fuck off and put one some music that doesnt make you cry, e.g shina twain, dashboard confession because youre a pussy. Congratulations youre zombie a twat.

What the fuck? Im not even a punk dumbass, i just get pissed when i see some bitch with a casualties t shirt and some arm band around them, I stopped with all that shit but i still listen to some of the good punk. filamens kill your idols stockyard stories? and you call me a pussy? you like that shitty pop punk shit? i havnt even heard of stockyard stories, they prolly suck tho. but anyways i dont remember all of their lyrics just some of the funny ones and dumbshit like diehards so i can make fun of people but minor threat is sick as fuck. and you never heard of career soldiers or cheap sex? well their pretty horrible mike virus is the singer in cheap sex thank goodness you dont them. i bet you never been to a show but then again those 2 bands are local and most dumbasses prolly havnt heard of them in the UK. have you ever seen the casualties? jorge talks like a god damn english man, its pretty weird but maybe he does it as a joke. and why would i cry if the majority of street punk bands yell? what a dumbass, they do its true. yes i hate it so much yet i know so much about the punk scene, it makes me cry and listen to ramones and cut myself to them. a poster?and you dont care if some band compleatly rips off another band and uses their song to make a fucking CD about it and profits off it. im not talking about just covering a song. maybe if you actually gave a shit about punk, which you obviously dont, you would care. and what the fuck are you talking about? belive me, i dont listen to what my "punk friends" say because really i think their pretty stupid and they wouldnt beat me up for wearing a shirt they would prolly just tell me that they suck and how lame they are which is pretty true. and hey you called me trendy and it looks like you popped a boner out of exitement good job.now turn off that stupid street punk shit and get out of the scene.

hey! lets keep the ramones outa this!

ya man seriously. bringing in the ramones was not cool man. not cool.

Hey, I thought we were trying to help Tinman here, but the thread has gone way off topic.In reply to:Hey (ill try to make this concise)Basically i go to school, i go to my extra curricular activities, i come home. Does homework, meets with groups for projects when i need to. I talk to ppl on AIM. Repeat cycle.I'm a senior in high school and I just never got a good group of friends. I certainly have friends and many aquaintences, but no group of friends to hang out with. No close friends.I've gone on a social outing not forced by school like 3-4 times in my HS career. I need help.I'm shy with people I don't know, I'm not always a great conversationalist.Big fear of rejection. Was made fun of in Middle School (years ago, I know) and I had no friends then. I do have friends now and am no longer made fun of - but I still think I would be rejected by people from my middle school.Rarely to never asked to hang out or do anything and I don't suggest anything (fear of rejection,no group of close friends)...Casual friend/good aquaintence to many but not good enough to ask me to hang out I guess.How can I change this? I didn't use to be very social, either. I almost never talked to people in school. I never smiled. I was made fun of, too, because I was smart but talked very slowly.During the eighth grade, things socially changed for me a little. I realized that the getting made fun of was all meaningless and no one is better than me anyway because we're all equal. I decided to actually choose to hang out with the group that accepted me at school, a fun-loving, random, humorous group. Also, the fact that I first really liked a girl that year kinda forced me out of my shell, too. Of course, I never got with her because I had no idea about attracting girls the right way.When I entered my all-boys Jesuit high school, I didn't know anybody, so I had to start from scratch. A few of those people were social and occasionally talked to me because I was in classes with them. In a few of my classes, I would act crazy and hyper, although you can't do that with every teacher. I took a new attitude: don't get upset about anything, and you'll always be happy. Optimism is the way to go: always expect things to be great, and they will be. I also played Yu-Gi-Oh after school in the trading card club, helping me to make more friends. I became good friends with a kid I suggested that he join the club, and made many more friends through him. That kid was the first from my current school for me to hang out with outside of school.Beginning of my sophomore year, I changed even more. I loosened up on my morals, realizing that none of us can be expected to be perfect and that people who make offensive jokes don't really mean them. I joined the plays at my school, and since I already knew some people a little bit, it was like we were already great friends. I made even more friends, including girls, through this extracurricular activity. I later learned that if anybody makes fun of you, you can never be unprepared because there is a universal comeback: say something similar about their mom. Or just reframe their comment in a way that makes you look good.I also made some friends in my older brother's class. He was a senior and had a driver's license, and he liked hanging out with two friends from school. I invited myself along on these driving adventures.Now I'm a junior. I still don't like crowds, especially people I don't know. I'm not a very good conversationalist, either. I am culturally inept, so I usually don't know about the topic being discussed. But I don't have to, I just act like I do, by agreeing with what is said or by repeating it with different words. Even if I don't say anything, I don't show shyness but satisfaction. When I do speak, it is usually some random or funny thought, and my friends love me for these rare moments.I don't hang out with many school friends outside of school, but that's fine. I'm friends/acquaintances with almost everybody at my school (that could just be the way things are at my school or the fact that I am nonjudgmental and don't play favorites), so it's hard to say I could consider any of them "best friends."I still talk slow, but I don't do it in an intimidated way. It's just the way I am.You shouldn't have a problem. You're a senior in high school, which means you'll be in college soon. The way to make friends is to go with a frame of mind that you're already friends.Sorry if this post was a little long, but I enjoy reflecting on my life.

You forget the ones between Steve and Ntro... They didn't involve you either.

Where was he?