I am 13 years old and female. I think I am bisexual. I have fantasies about talking about sex and sometimes I fantasize about fingering this girl who I think is really pretty at school, although we've never actually had a proper conversation. I also fantasize about her friends aswell. I also have fantasies about being with and having sex with a male celebrity I fancy.I go to an all girls private school and because I have so many tests and homework, I don't have time to go out and really meet boys. All my friends are friends from my school and they too work loads and don't no any boys either. I've never had a boyfriend and therefore never kissed a boy. I've never had a girlfriend either. I am so confused. I know I'm going through puberty, but I'm fantasizing about male celebritys, females at my school, and don't have a boyfriend. Please help!!!
**first of all hon, relax.
Sexuality is something that needs to be explored, and that sounds like its just what you are doing. If you didn't go to a girls school i would think that you would still think about doing something sexual with a girl, most people your age do wonder what it would be like to be with both sexes, its normal.
Puberty is a hard time, i wouldn't want to go through all that again, but keep in mind that whatever you feel, is how you feel and there is no reason to worry or try to change it.............the next few years will be a rollercoaster of emotions, sensations and adventures........good and bad........don't worry about how you feel, its all normal :smile: **
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Dont fell bad. I am a guy and even most men think about that kind of stuff during purbery. It is just are nature to want to explore. It doesnt mean you are gay or bi. There is no one on this earth that is 100% straight. It just cant happen. I am not saying i am gay. I am not. But i can say that eveyone has done something like that with the opposite sex at least once. Most men do it at the same age as you. That is when peole start to relize who they are and what they wont from life. Some people stay gay and some go back. Well most go back. Just let it go. Just let you body to what it has to do. Dont try and force yourself to forget about the dreams. We cant control the dreams. Hell sometimes they mean something total differnet then what you dreamed about. The dreams could be tell you that you are lonley and wont someone special in your life. it could just be something simple as you body is telling you to relive some stress. It could mean anything.
I think the fact that you have no exposure to boys is significant. You don't talk to them, you don't have much chance to see them - under conditions like that, your mind tends to think of girls because boys are unknown and distant.Personally I think single-sex schools aren't a good idea for that reason - people need the opportunity at that age to get social experience with the other gender, and not everyone can outside school.
ok..... you don't have any problems. dreaming about a male celeberty isn't bad or anything just like dreaming aobut someone that's hot. about the dreaming bout the girls part you might be bi but it might also be a phase. and i'm 15 and i've never had a gf or kissed a girl and lots of people haven't had gf/bf's that are older than you, and right now is the time to focus on school and not how to get laid( lol jking)
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As its been mentioned being at an all girl school has limited your options and its only natural to think how your thinking as its the comfortable option for you as you've been missing out on social interaction with boys.Theres nothing wrong or unusual about whats going on in your head, its likely your not the only person at your school who thinks the same way.Chances are over the next few years in particular youll be around boys more and find that you will be drawn to them sexually, again your only 13!I agree with il that going to a same sex school isnt a good thing as there is more to life than education, social skills are just as important, if not moreso.
What they said ^^ 6 of my friends claim to be bisexual and it pisses me off a bit cos they're all roughly your age and to be honest I don't think they have a clue what sexuality they are yet...
SIGNATURE?!?!?! Get away. I am above such things.