Just alot of mess....

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Ok, I'm 15, have almost no freinds, ona my best freinds suddenly doesn't care about life or me cuz his girlfreind broke sorta up and he wants to move to the town she's in in a year, im bi, i have no social life, the freind i was talkin about does but doesn't do much with me, im not very attractive, i have no gf, never had drugs, alchohol, or sex, im a very boring person, i have no life and no one wants me to be a part of theirs and if i was a part of theirs ide be much funner and then more people would like me and then other better things would happen....but for now i just wanted to rant about stuff...

In reply to: i have no social life, im not very attractive, i have no gf, never had drugs, alchohol, or sex, im a very boring person, i have no life and no one wants me to be a part of theirs and if i was a part of theirs ide be much funner and then more people would like me and then other better things would happen Ditto.

I've been where you are... Matter of fact still pretty much am. But I'm finding ways to cope with it. I don't have many friends either, but I cherish the ones I have. My best friend left for the Marines, so I don't get to talk to him anymore, and may never see him again. That hurts to know. You say you have no social life. I know how that goes. I never got invited to parties, I never got invited to do anything, I never even knew anybody's phone number except my best friend's. I've never had a real girlfriend, partially cause I'm an ugly sumbitch. I guess what I'm getting at is we're a lot alike. I'm tryin to cope, and one way I do is to joke about it. I love making my friends laugh, even if it's sorta at my expense. One thing that's helped me thus far is to find something that you love to do, and are confident in your abilities to do it. Seeing as you're 15, I'm guessing you're still in school. School is a great place to meet friends too. So after all that rambling, I guess what I'm getting at is try to be confident in yourself. School is a great place to make friends and so are hobbies. Just don't give up on yourself.

I think many of us can understand you here. I'm 20 years old, in college and i DONT drink or party. Can you believe that?! to top it off i dont have many friends. But you know what, you have to learn that you are not the only one out there like that, trust me. i thought the same. In high school its very difficult because of all the peer pressure. but as you get older, people mature and get over that stuff. DO NOT change who you are for ANYBODY! be happy with yourself, cherish the people in your life. if you only have one friend, apreciate it. there is always someone out there that has things worse than you, i promise. you just need to be yourself, and i promise you one day you will be grateful you did. I SURE AM!

You've been around here for a while, Someone young, and I have never found you boring. You have opinions, you think about things - I don't know why you would consider yourself boring.

Yea, I'm prolly not insanely boring, but I always have a opinion thats somewhat....different or weird......but yea, I'm glad this site's been here.....but yea....my freind...never does anything for me and treats me like shit....but when ever he needs something he runs to me...and expects me to do it...and gets kinda ticked if i don't....shitty ass freinds....yet im basically forced to be the guys freind....cuz i don't know really anyone else....the guy is a cool guy when he wants to be....hes the only one who knows the true me....we like the same stuff...all in all im glad to have him but he just makes me so mad sometimes!!!

and i can try to tell him what he acts like then he doesn't beleive me and turns around and finds a bad way im behaving and then shits at me for something.....yet he tells me all the time we can be honest with each other..-_-

yeah.... alot of ur are like that, thats probably why we found this site in the first place. a group of outcasts brought into one place to discuss their issues. I don't know how to help u really other then to put a smile on keep ur head high and be open to anything

hi!

Well, idk...when i came to this site i was actually not that much of an outcast....i was just horny and liked talking about masterbation with someone....and now over time ive kinda become a outcast and focus on the depression and teen life forums...

"We can be honest with each other" is one of those common lies. There's no-one so close, no-one so good a friend, that you don't have to be diplomatic and careful when talking about their faiults. And there's no friend so good as to have no faults. It's the same with wives and husbands. sex godess, I like your observations. We're often a group of waifs clinging together.

I'm very similar, except for one fateful day when I met a group of guys just like me...I'm sure you'll find somewhere to fit in eventually. If you see any people at lunch or something that are sitting alone, then sit with them. Chances are, they are looking for friends too.

Well thats how popualr people form....they find the freinds that are "just like them"....what if there's no one like U?.....

Then you accept yourself for the way you are.. Never ever change yourself!