Weight-boyfriends-HHHHEEEELLLLPPP!!!!!

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im 13 nd am not as thin as most ppl.im not fat just kinda....chubby? over time i've liked ppl (obviously) but am too scared to say anything.there other gf's have been skinny nd i cant compare to that.i've been called fat b4 (by bully's) nd my mom tells me "ur so pretty, if only you could loose weight" nd that has made me rele self concious. i guess my question is, is that, should i go for a guy? and to all guys out there:wat do u consider fat.thanx

it depends how tall you are

sry....im 5'5"

All men are into different things, some prefer fat, some prefer thin. Saw a poll on TV today, men prefer fatter women to skinny women but the ideal is slim, generally speaking.Ultimately men arent as shallow as many women seem to think.

what do u want as a answer an average weight for the hieght>

well, i don't like girls that are THAT skinny, but average is just right. And if it makes you feel self concious, why not just eat foods with less fats and join track team or swim team or go lift weights.

yeah if you are very concerned you can do some cardio and you will lose some fat. I mean it is not a bad idea either, you will have a healthy heart.

As long as you're happy with yourself. That's all that matters. If you dont like how you look do something about it.. start easily.. start eatting healthier.. go for some nice brisk walks.. All that matters is how YOU feel

First off, I've battled my weight all of my life and I've come to the conclusion that if someone doesn't like me because my butt happens to be a little rounder than the next girl, they're not worth my time. Sweetie, if you want to lose weight, then do it for yourself, not anyone else. You do NOT need to change anything about yourself for anyone else but 'you' and only 'you'. Your weight shouldn't stop you from getting a date honey, there are plenty of guys who aren't shallow and not every guy wants a pencil thin gal who is afraid to breath because they might gain an ounce of weight. Get out there girl and flaunt your stuff, and if you get turned down by some guy, don't worry, just dust yourself off and try again. Good luck hun ^_^

Let me tell you about the one that got away.She was beautiful. Really. Unbelievable hair. And face. And sense of style and decorum and beautiful modesty. She was sweet and giving to a fault. She noticed things. And she sang like a bird. And I blew it big time. If I had one do-over, it would be with Stacie. But she's married now and I'm the lonely single guy. Stacie was probably 30 pounds over what is considered "normal" weight. It just didn't matter. It doesn't matter more times than you might think.If you are constantly thinking about the one thing that is not perfect about you, guys will totally miss out on the other 99% of you that is wonderful. Don't let that happen.

you know what ma, i dont think your fat, and depending on where you live, im shure u can get a boyfriend, most men like THICK woman, you know girls with big bootys and nice big pair of boobys, skinny girls cant compare with a thick girl in those areas, and in the next few years you will notice that more guys are gonna be attracted to you, you wanna know what my model is, girl u aint fat, u just got mo cushion fo da pushin ;-) lol dont worry about it, get ur hurr did, and yo nails done, and your pretty lil shirt that shows made cleavage (unless ur underdeveloped,) some nice tight jeans that show off your ass, (unless you dont have one) make shure to wear a thong so no panty lines show, and go after that boy, good luck, and remember dont be scared, the worse he can say is no. or insult u. but mostly no.

True.. alot of guys LOVE thick girls.. my Ex was obsessed with my "thick" thighs .. lol.. I hated it.. cause my legs are pretty in shape.

i know exactly what u r goin thorugh, i am the same way just alot taller lol im 6'1" and 220 and a bit chubby.....anyways i have an incredible gf she is beautiful, SMALL and just awsome. if you really wanna lose weight tho, try finding a sport you like and get on the team at ur school or arouind ur area

i wish i was 6'1 and 220 thats great football stat

lol yeah i play football. (linebacker) i might try QB i have a good arm

Some of the really hot and sexy girls in my school here in merry old england re about the same weight as you sound if not bigger.If you don't let it bother you, then most boys won't think anything of it. We really are that easily maniplated.