we both masterbate with each other at times, and Id rather do it with him than alone, I just caught him doing it in the bathroom alone... Im so confused Y am I no longer good enough? Only time I ever done it alone is when he completely refuses I never turn him down. HE KNOWS THAT!!!!!!!!!!! Y is it that he couldnt just enjoy it with me? Y did he have to go off alone, when he knows what I feel about doing it alone?
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Husband and I
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You are overreacting. Guys just do that stuff. It's not a reflection of you.
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I like to masterbate with my manthing, however, there are times when i like to be by myself.........its no big deal.......if he did it by himself and NEVER with you, then I would worry, however if you both still do it together and have a good sex life, then its not a problem.
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I agree that you are over reacting. It's nothing personal to our partners; it's just self-pleasure. There is nothing wrong with self-pleasure nor is it cheating. It's like having personal times.So please don’t take it personal that your husband masturbates without you. Remember he still has sex with you and still masturbates with you so he still finds you attractive and wants to be with you.
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used to masterbate with Mrs X often but but still would on my own
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he'll masterbate with me but he wont have sex with me.. EVER, I mean its prolly been about 4 months since we last actually had sex...
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and I dont like doing it by myself, not any more I used to... it just frustrates me cause I will practicaly refuse to masterbate on my own.... because when I want to he gets an attitude...and Id like to keep things goin with he and I , so I just sit horny the entire night..
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that being the case, there is a problem. Try to post the entire story in the first post, alot of details where left out that I think would of changed the answers people gave you.This being th case, Id say you have a problem, not because he wacks it, but because your not allowed to do so and because you dont have sex anymore maybe its time to seek professional help, marriage counseling, or maybe a good divorce attorney.
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Are you wanting sex with him and hes refusing? Is there any reason he cant have sex? If there is no good reason listnen to the last post.
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Sweetie you are totally over-reacting. Guys do that like every second of the day (not literally) Maybe he just wanted alone time. Don't worry about it. And if you really feel that way then get back at the biyoch and masterbate alone and make him catch you!! Works every time
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In reply to:that being the case, there is a problem. Try to post the entire story in the first post, alot of details where left out that I think would of changed the answers people gave you.This being th case, Id say you have a problem, not because he wacks it, but because your not allowed to do so and because you dont have sex anymore maybe its time to seek professional help, marriage counseling, or maybe a good divorce attorney. we are already seeking professional help.. we are both going to a therapist because I came out of a really rough lifestyle where I was beat and junk, and hes had the same..so we are trying to make the best come out of each other. its just taking some tiem.. thanks for teh advice tho, was verry helpfull!
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In reply to:Sweetie you are totally over-reacting. Guys do that like every second of the day (not literally) Maybe he just wanted alone time. Don't worry about it. And if you really feel that way then get back at the biyoch and masterbate alone and make him catch you!! Works every time again the thing is I DONT WANT TO masterbate alone, since Ive gotten to feel him playin in there with my toys, I no longer get any pleasure out of doing it on my own...
