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okay this is NOT repeat NOT one of those sick 'i saw my sister/brother masturbatng and it got me horny' threadsmy sister was walking around topless and i accidentally saw, and she laughed. it was really creepy. im just feeling disturbed.

It happens. You will not be scarred for life.

Why should it be creepy? In a lot of cultures (including African ones), females are normally topless. No one gets psychologically scarred because of it.

The issue is, why do you find it so creepy?

Like Lisa said it happens. I have two older sisters and unfortunately I have seen them both topless by accident. Even worse I saw my mother. She didn't know I was home and walked out of the bedroom topless to get her coffee and I was in the kitchen.Just one of those things that happen when living with females.

lol she probably shouldn't have been walking around topless anyway. I live in a house with nothing but guys except my mom and sometimes my sister. And a bunch of guys keep coming to the house like really they have their own homes. So I can't do that. If I did I'd be torn to shreds lol.

In reply to: Why should it be creepy? In a lot of cultures (including African ones), females are normally topless. No one gets psychologically scarred because of it. But you have to remember, in our culture they women don't. It's not surprising therefore it was a little surprising.

I have no idea where Africa is from, and a lot of families in the U.S. are not hung up about nudity. I think the obsession that some Americans have with nudity is similar to the problem that some conservative cultures have with an exposed woman's ankle. It's just a difference in degree.

Yet the U.S. is awash in pornography. The body is viewed as a dirty thing. It shouldn't be that way.

If your sister were sitting in the living room with her baby, and it was feeding time, would you insist that she go into the bathroom or bedroom to breast feed?

In reply to: If your sister were sitting in the living room with her baby, and it was feeding time, would you insist that she go into the bathroom or bedroom to breast feed? No, but its about social acceptability. I dont want to see my relatives tits, and I like to think they dont want to show me, thats all there is to it. Just because other cultures do it differnetly doesnt mean I should change my attitude towards it.Anyway, Africa, I shouldnt worry. Your siter probably doesnt think much of it and your at liberty to put it behind you and never hear of it again.

If a person is nude, that does not imply that they want to show you their junk. That clearly applies to the original poster's situation. It's just sad that he had to go through feeling wierd about it. What's the gain in that?I'm not sure how it is in England (Rupert Murdoch's page 3 girls notwithstanding), but most Western Europeans are not so hung up on nudity. And social norms do evolve, sometimes quite rapidly. In any case, nudity does not equal sex, which seems to be the underlying issue.

It's wierd and creepy now but you'll survive.

the fact that she laughed and didnt think it was weeird creeps me out. and im not african lol simple mistake...its just my username cuz uh...well im not sure lol

the fact that she laughed and didnt think it was weeird creeps me out.Really, that shouldn't creep you out. Should she have slapped you instead? The problem is not with her. You ought to think about why you feel that way, because it doesn't make much sense to me. They're just breasts! It's not like she was sexually assualting you. Is there something deeper going on inside your head?

He's probably just not used to seeing his sister in that way. I don't blame him. If I saw my sister topless I'd yell at her lol. I have too and it was disturbing :P.

i saw my mom topless a few times by mistake when i was younger and more recently. i had a few bad dreams i mentioned before on this forum...see im the only guy in the house and its a little weird

He seems to be very disturbed by it; you are (I hope) joking about it. Why would you yell at your sister? In the course of years, sometimes you will accidentally see another family member naked. It's almost inevitable. I don't understand what the big deal is.

yeah duh of course I'm joking lol. I have to go in changing rooms with her to tell her the stupid bra isn't too small and she's usually the one telling me about my body and crap. I should have put more smileys in my post or something. better?Radeck whatever.... get a life.

The result of seeing your mom naked shouldn't be bad dreams, and if you do have bad dreams, you need to realize that they don't mean anything, unless something deeper is going on.

If you live in a house with other people, as I told Abby, it's almost inevitable that you'll occasionally see body parts. It would be ridiculous to expect them to make sure that there would be no possible way that could never happen. And your sister's reaction is completely appropriate, unless you live in Afghanistan.

There are large families that share a single bathroom, and it would be impractical for everyone to make sure that there would be no way that anyone else ever saw them not fully dressed.

so you're spying on me! gaspers! lol don't judge if you don't know.

i guess i kind of blew it out of proportion...im sorry maybe i should stop making a thread every time im concerned about something. it must be a bit annoying.you're right radeckl lots of stuff bothers me. id normally act offended that some guy on the internet who doesnt know me is judging me but since i post so much i cant complain really :/

don't worry about hun he was talking to me lol