Ok so I lost my virginity to my bf recently on Friday morning and anyways it went pretty well, hurt a bit at first, but then it was fine, we used lots of lube. However he finished pretty quick. Anyways my question is we were having sex again during the afternoon yesterday and because I didn't orgasm the first time during sex (I told him a lot of girls didnt, and to be honest he didn't last long enough for me to orgasm, but i didn't expect him to, since he was a virgin too) he didn't tell me when he orgasmed, and he kept going until I orgasmed. I had never heard of this before, and like didn't know guys could continue. So could some one explain to me how exactly this works?
Some lucky guys are able to stay hard after orgasm and keep going (and eventually have another one). This is referred to as being multiorgasmic, and some multiorgasmic guys can have several orgasms without going soft.
Most of us, alas, go soft after cumming and have to wait some time before we can get hard again. So you are lucky with your bf (and so is he).
Sometimes I can stay hard a while if the motion doesn't stop. It's more likely that than him being multi-orgasmic.
If he does come it's very important to replace the condom (I'm assuming you're using them), otherwise semen can come out if he continues.
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if he does come it's very important to replace the condom
Good point. She posted earlier, though. that she was going on the pill.