Did you lose your virginity the way you wanted to?

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Well i don't think either of us were expecting fireworks however i wasn't exactly going to spell it out.

Quote:Practice makes perfect nope.. perfect Practice makes perfect

Lol

Any kind of practice is good !!! , and .... practice is always a lot of fun where i come from. hehehe

Drunk and not so horny, but she obviously was. I was too drunk to finish, my first time, so we went at it for about an hour. Ugly story, huh? She asked for it. Literally.

it wasn't as I had expected but it had to happen eventually. It could have happend that my g/f and I lost it together but we broke up for a month and someone else snuck in and stole my cherry.I was going to a house party with a buddy. He said that there was this hottie, Alicia, who was also going. Apperently everyone was after this chick. I met her, she was deffinately georgeous. We ended up looking for music in a bedroom in the basement... started kissing and hey-ho-there-ya-gowe never did it again but we did hang out a fair bit. About a month later, I got back together with my other g/f and she lost her's with me. In retrospect, it would have been nice if we did together but ya can't change the past.now I'm a born again virgin. I haven't had sex in 7 days

Originally Posted By: RadecklYour hymen doesn't grow back in a mere 7 days! I'm pretty sure his hymen will never grow back, due to the fact that it never existed. And I'm pretty sure hymens don't grow back on females either.I haven't lost mine yet, but I really only have two expectation, which is that, whoever I lose it to is someone who I love, and trust, and that I know they feel the same way about me. Although, I would prefer it somewhere romantic and such rather than the back of a car (no offense to anyone who finds that romantic :D), I don't think it would make much of a difference as long as I know it was the right person. I think the person is what makes all the difference.

Originally Posted By: Radeckl Originally Posted By: Elena Originally Posted By: RadecklYour hymen doesn't grow back in a mere 7 days! I'm pretty sure his hymen will never grow back, due to the fact that it never existed. And I'm pretty sure hymens don't grow back on females either.I haven't lost mine yet, but I really only have two expectation, which is that, whoever I lose it to is someone who I love, and trust, and that I know they feel the same way about me. Although, I would prefer it somewhere romantic and such rather than the back of a car (no offense to anyone who finds that romantic :D), I don't think it would make much of a difference as long as I know it was the right person. I think the person is what makes all the difference. Look at you with 12 posts knows more about men than men know about themselves! :p Hahaha, No, I'm afraid you're very wrong about that. I don't know very much about them at all, that's why I'm here. That, and the fact that my school lacks in sexual education.. a lot.

dammitI'm still looking for my hymenjeeze, where is that thing?!

haha it was a 13th birthday present from my brother[my bro got me a hot chick, i didnt fuck my bro lmao]

Originally Posted By: hotassmofohaha it was a 13th birthday present from my brother[my bro got me a hot chick, i didnt fuck my bro lmao wow. How did he wrap her?Did she pop out of the cake,or did he just use a lotta wrapping paper? :P

I lost it to a girlI really liked, and knew very well. The reason I chose her, though, wasn't because I cared a lot about her. I was familiar with her and figured I could learn some stuff about sex from her without worrying about embarrassing myself. She and I actually had a few first times, because my pathetic self kept going limp. When we finally got everything to work, it was over too quick and I didn't feel like I'd done too well (I didn't come, just lasted for about 10 minutes before going limp again.)

All in all I'd say the best way to go, for a guy at least, would be to find a girl who isn't a virgin. You should know her, and you should be attracted to her, but you shouldn't be in love with her. For girls, I would definitely say go for a guy your own age or younger. Older guys who would pop your cherry do not want what they tell you they want - usually.

Quote:You should know her, and you should be attracted to her, but you shouldn't be in love with her. In other words, lead her to think you like her and then use her for sex? That's nice.That is, of course, you mean a mutual one night stand type of thing with no strings attached.  Quote:Older guys who would pop your cherry do not want what they tell you they want - usually. What does a guy being older have anything to do with popping the cherry? And I didn't quite understand the rest. Older guys don't want to tell girls what they want? Did I read that right?

Never said you should be misleading. I was very forward with the girl I lost mine to. Told her I wasn't in love with her but I wanted to sleep with her. If she'd have expected anything more I wouldn't have gone through with it. I just think a guy's first time would be better if it were casual. So a one night stand would be an option, yes.I said that older men don't usually want what they tell you they want. In other words they say they want one thing and really want another. But, like I said, that's usually.

I regret nothing. I dont consider myself a virgin and havent for a few years now, but im a gay man, so what would the rest of you consider losing your virginity?

Originally Posted By: RadecklMy opinion: Keep is as long as you can and give it to that someone special.You only have it once to give. Couldn't agree with you more on that one. It was so romantic (I know that sounds cheesy but wait!). It was on Valentines day of 2006, I was 17 he was 18. We were dating for a year and he took me out for dinner at this beautiful hotel. Afterwards he said that he had booked a room for us to just relax in. We never could just lay down in my bed cause that was prohibited by my parents and his mother didn't really alow us alone. I was expecting it to happen. I opened the door and there were candles lit and rose petals in the shape of a heart on white sheets. It was so beautiful and definately memerable.Sorry for boring you guys with my long story.

No boredom at all, ChristyRes, and welcome to A2A.The trouble with guys' doing that is it sets a difficult standard for the rest of us.

Lol thanx.

You know as long as you try that's all that counts.

you gotta keep up Ineligible lol. most women like that kinda shit. the thing is once you have her spoild to that kinda stuff you got to keep on making the next better. for shannon's 19th bd i did the rose everything for her... spent lots of green on those roses and her rose cake and hotel room. for christmas i did the rose a day till christmas day thing.. green well spent but shit she is spoiled! she hinted to me that her birthday is getting close.... (next month... next friday exatly) I don't know wtf i'm going to do but it's her 20th so it's got to beat her 19th... u know.

I hope my wife doesn't hear about this! Next she'll start wanting me to buy her her own birthday presents, instead of having to buy them herself.