well there's this girl i like as some of you know. but when i hang out with her one on one, she seems to have a great time and we both laugh and play around and all that good stuff. but when we're around a group of people, she just seems to totally ignore me. why is this?
What does this mean?
"Sometimes I think i'm gonna join the army, I mean it's basically like FPS but better graphics. But what h...
People are often different in a group. They try to conform to the "group's way of thinking". Groups can be better or worse than individuals - in this case it seems worse. It seems she's not confident that the group will accept you.
I think there's sense in what Ineligable says, but that it's also possible that if you form a stronger bond in private with her she could learn quite quickly to be more comfortable with you in a group situation. It might just be the case that she is unsure of how to relate to you in this situation, purely because it is new to her.
You need to find out if your on the friends ladder or the dating ladder. That's my advice.