One thing you can do is not go to his house again.
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Gay friend
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If you really don't want this to happen, you shouldn't first allow it that easily. Your friend is taking advantage of you a bit, and you let him doing all these stuff.It's also quite obvious that he doesn't see you only as a friend anymore. If you really can't persuade him about it, threaten him a bit and tell him that you won't visit his house again etc. If this still doesn't work, the last solution is to avoid him.
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if he doesnt stop say i got to go and just walk away
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Originally Posted By: IneligibleOne thing you can do is not go to his house again. My thoughts exactly!If this is truly something you do not want to do anymore than simply stop hanging out with him and going to his house. Should stop the unwated acts.
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maybe you enjoy it also cause if you didn't since the first time you would have quit going to his house tell me the truth. do you really want to stop doing that?
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But you still continue to do it?Firmly tell him NO, and DON'T participate. If he tries, leave his house; tell him why, and don't go back.
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Originally Posted By: carlmaube you enjoy it also cause if you didn't since the first time you would have quit going to his house tel me the truth do you really want to stop doing that Partially what he said is true, it sounds like you like it, theres nothing wrong with that. But If you don't want it happening its pretty self-explanatory, who wants a friend that forces the other friend into sex?
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You need to tell him "no" straight out. You can hang out with him if you want, you can go to his house if you want, but that does not mean that it is okay for him to force you to have sex. There is a word in the English language for non-consensual sex: RAPE! And in many states, territories, provinces, and countries it is ILLEGAL! In fact, in many U.S. states that I know of, "he never told me to stop" is not even a good enough defense or excuse for him doing this!Rape like this is not uncommon. People feel trapped, like they cannot get out. They continue to go along with it even though they don't want it. It's not your fault. These other people are wrong. You are in no way to blame for this! Tell him "no," if he doesn't stop, tell your parents or the police.The best thing you can do is send this dirty filthy rapist to the penetentary as fast as you can! Besides, he'll get just the sort of thing he wants in there
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Tewem...the guy has admitted to enjoying it; he just expresses shame over the homosexual act.It is very hard to prove rape when you have consented to it; it really is. It would be absolutly insane for him to skip the chain of human decency and go right towards criminal charges. Also, I think he trying to prevent this from becomming a VERY permenent airing of dirty laundry.He keeps participating in it (because he enjoys it, if nothing else, he enjoys the sexual release) the other guy knows he has reservations, but the OP gives in regardless. He must say no, and NOT participate in the act. If it continues, then he should leave, and not go back.Criminal charges are not a joke; the OP is dealing with a horny, young teenager who is dealing with his sexual needs with another (consenting) horny, young teenager. I don't think the offending kid has any intention to commit a crimnal act; nor is he motivated in the same way that rapists are (About 2% of rape is for sexual gratification) To have the kid charged has very serious consequences; he gets labled a pervert, and may have to register as a sex offender for life. All that for being a horny kid? Insanity!Jack, follow the moderate advice here: tell him, don't participate, leave, and THEN if he pursues you can look into involving the police.
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well...thx u guys for the advice i started to avoid him these days...he knew i didnt want it anymore but he is refusing the idea but i keep telling him NO.byw carl i didnt say i enjoyed the sex i only said i enjoyed the bj