Well for a few weeks I've been pursuing this gorgeous girl (lets just call her sally for convenience). I took her out on a few dates and we had sex and all that good stuff. This past week I tried to get in touch with her so we could hang out again but she was always busy, or at least thats what she told me. This past Saturday one of my friends was having his birthday party so I decided to give sally a call and invite her. Well Sally didn't answer her phone, I left her a message telling her about the party and insisting that she come drink a beer with me. The party was sort of dead at the moment so I decided to drive into town in an attempt to find some people. I saw a friend of mines truck parked outside a restaurant so I decided to park and walk inside because I didn't have his number. Well low and behold him and sally sitting together sharing a quaint little meal. At this point we notice each other and it's clear that things just took a turn for the awkward. I approach them in a friendly manner and proceed to inform them about the party I was at and that I was just dropping by to let them know about it. I kept myself calm and friendly even though I wanted to throw a fit and make a scene. I don't believe someone would do something like this to another human being, how inconsiderate is that! If she wanted to date someone else she could have made that apparent instead of going behind my back like this. And as far as my friend is concerned, he is officially on my shit list. The last time he saw us together we were locking hands, it's not like he didn't know. I have never cheated or played anybody, so it really hurts that she would do this to me.
Damn I got played :(
Well, even though what you said might be true, what're you going to do now? I mean, you can't take revenge or something. That wouldn't make the situation "even." I'm pretty sure you weren't thinking of revenge anyway, but I just had to make sure that it wasn't an option in your mind. There's really nothing you can do now except try and move on. If you want to let her know how you feel, then let her know. If you want to talk to your friend about how you feel, then let him know. But the main thing you have to focus on is leaving this behind. Maybe you want to repair the relationship with your friend. You can try doing that, but it's not going to happen by ignoring him, if that's what you meant by "shit list."
We do what we do in life because the world tells us it's right. But what's there to tell the world whether or not what -it's- doing is right?
That's a real kick in the guts when that happens.
If my friend wants to repair our friendship then he will have to initiate it, the bloods on his hands in this scenario, he knew what he was doing to me and he did it anyway. I live in a small town so I will no doubt see them again, I just hope they feel shitty about it.
you are the victem of a daily happening. people meet through any means and fall in love or swap to new partners. You didnt get played, ya just got the shit end of the stick. they met because of you and she decided she was better off with someone else. to play you she would of had to taken something from you besides time. you got laid, you had a good time it didnt work out.
if she married you and took half your shit since you were so well off, and never gave a rats ass about you then ya got played.
as it is ya did get fucked by a friend, the guy seeing her that knew ya was with her, hes the one that fucked you, but you didnt get played.
Let's agree to respect each others views, no matter how wrong yours may be.