I had sex with this girl about a month and a half ago but I used a condom(the condom was to small)and did not cum(but dont really know alot about precum), now she calls me and says that she is pregnant. Here is the twist, three days before we had sex she had unprotected sex with another guy and he did cum. She says that it is between him and I. She also says that she was ovulating when we had sex and was not when they had sex. The other guy says that he had been trying to have children with his ex-girlfriend for 4 years and could not because the doctor said he had a low sperm count. What are the chances the child is mine, oh yeah afterwards I even checked the condom to see if it had any holes and it did'nt. Please voice your opinions
Used condom but she is pregnant
Sperm can live in the vagina for 4-7 days. If you didn't ejaculate, used a condom, and the condom was intact, I would venture to say that the chance that you are the father is very very small. Depending on what happens, I would insist on a paternity test if she carries the child to term and insists that it is yours.
I doubt you are the father, but you should always use a condom that fits properly.
In any case, when the baby is born you should get a paternity test.
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It sounds like the other might be trying to get out of fatherhood. Be prepared to take a paternity test.
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If the condom didn't tear, the fact that it was too small wouldn't matter. Since you didn't ejaculate either, the chances of the child being yours would be zero.
hmm I guess part of the question is are you sure you didn't ejaculate?
I mean just because you didn't orgasim doesn't mean you didn't ejaculate anything.. I might be wrong but, I once read the first drop usually has the most sperm. Then again on the interweb and tv you can't always beleive everything you read.
All I am saying is play it carefully.
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Sounds to me like your currently getting fucked for the fucking you did earlier.
She wouldnt now if she was ovulating or not when she got boned by guy#1 or by you.
Honestly Id be suspect if she is even pregnant.
Girls like to play stupid games she maybe full of shit to begin with and not even be knocked up.
If she is ID bet my left nut that its not from you, if all of your story is accurate. Be single, whore around, get knocked up and yu gotta put the blame someplace so your not alopne. Maybe she decided your the better daddy, or she likes you better, or the other guy told her to go fuck herself.
I wouldnt do shit till the child is born and you cna have a paternity test.
Unless of course you love her.
My youngest isnt mine by blood, but I love and adore him to no end. Im the only dad he has ever known and he is mine now, even if it wasnt me that fucked his mother to begin with. Iv boned the shit out of her enough times since to make up for it not being me that did it to begin with.
Protect yourself in this matter. dont get stuck with a baby that isnt yours, unless of course you adn the mother are in love.
There is no reason to not love and take care of a child thats not yours, so long as you know that in the beginning.
I have two nephews that were not fathered by my brothers, but they sure as fuck are thier sons now. Never met thier sperm donors, never knew anyone aside from my brothers as dad.
Out of 4 of us 3 of us have a son thats not by blood, it doesnt make them any less our sons.
Just dont get saddled with a child you dont want, and isnt yours.
It can be one of the two, but not both.
Lots of people had children when they didnt want them, and lots have children they love that they didnt sire. Just make sure you dont have both of them working against you and have an unwanted child that isnt yours.
As to the other guy saying he vcant have kids, I dont know how many men have said that and been proven wrong.
THey either lied, or were mistaken.
Even a low sperm count is just low, not a zero and it only takes one to make a new life.
The only ones tha can garuntee they wont be having kids are those who like me, got some minor surgery, and been tested after and certified free of sperm discharge.
in case you wonder, the only regret I have about my youngest son is that I didnt know his mother when she was prgnant. I met him when he was 6 months old and I wish I had beenthere from the beginning of his life because I got fucked out of so much of him in those first 6 months.
Unless I stop and think about it I forget that he wasnt mine. It never occurs to me to call him anything but my son, and when I have problems with him it never occurs to me that he isnt really mine, birthdays and shit are the same, I never think of getting him less than I do my other 2 "real kids".
If you get involved with this girl and decide to stick around even if it isnt yours, youll never be happy if you cant obtain that same attitude.
No matter that he isnt from my sperm, hes still my son and Id fucking kill anyone that said he wasnt really mine
He may not of alwasy been mine, but he sure as hell is now.
Good luck, what ever you decide, but should yuo decide that you dont want to be with his mother, and then the paternity testing shows you are indeed the dad (I fucking doubt it) stand te fuck up and be a man and take care of your child.
A baby is no reason to get married, not being married is no reason to not love and take care of your child.
Let's agree to respect each others views, no matter how wrong yours may be.
No, this girl means absolutley nothing to me, just one thing lead to another. I really think that she wants it to be mine because I have a good job and have a lot f things going for me. The other guy does not want anything to do with her, anyways I just had a beautiful little son in January, I'm not ready for another one. I'm trying to make things right with the mother of my son.