People don't understand me...

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lol!!!!your sweet hunny kissvery smooth

and why do you put part of your reply in white? i can read it no problem. my color scheme is purple.

Smooth is my middle name.... well actually its William, but its close enough.

Unforutunately, this kid has problems and issues. Obviously you can tell from the posts. Telling someone who has problems, "Get lost..Goodbye" kind of defeats the whole purpose of this forum, don't you think? This isn't the private playground for everyone who likes each other.

lol, i didnt say get lost. he said bye so i said it back to him.people have tried to help him, he just denys what they say or turns it around completely.i HAD respect for the kid until he said what he did in Abi's thread.

Ok, so what he said was hurtful.He has issues. As I stated, he reminds me of my daughter. WHO just the other day, cracked open one of her dove eggs, and was THRILLED to see how the thing was still alive, though she had just basically killed it. The next day the other egg hatched. The dead dove, long forgotten. IT'S a HARD world for her to live in, BECAUSE no body understands. If Insearch has similar issues, I would put it like this to you. A guy stuck in a wheelchair without use of his arms either has been going to therapy, gains a little movement, but not enough to benefeit him, he works on it for a few years, but the initial is all he gets...so he gives up.Then, (because you would never be rude to a guy in a wheel chair) your talking to him one day, and he pukes ALL OVER you. Do you get angry at him for not figuring out how to get use of his arms back so he can clean it up himself? or do you clean the both of you up, and maybe just stand farther away at that point. Or do you just figure shit happens.The comment made in abby's thread sound like the puking, there is little to do about it, and the one who did it, isn't healthy enough to clean it up them self. And though not a lost battle, can't see the gains as worth it...

Originally Posted By: ashley69and why do you put part of your reply in white? i can read it no problem. my color scheme is purple. lol for those that have the normal color scheme They may not see the text unless they quote me. It's just a way to have a little bit of fun. For instance, if I had said, "I fucking hate you and I hope you die.." and then in white text put, "I'm just kidding, you know I love you" then the people would question what I said...ultimately feeling stupid if they were to get mad - after they found the white text :). There's the answer in so many words haha.

LOL i never thought if it that way :grin:

Originally Posted By: ashley69LOL i never thought if it that way hehe yeah it's fun stuff :). Use it a lot at another forum I frequent. So for you: does this work? actually no, it wouldn't. What's your color for the text background? Like mine black text on white background. Yours is purple text on..??

lol, i didnt say get lost. he said bye so i said it back to him. Yeah, well shrouded in that one word, a whole lot more was being said.When a mentally deranged person, who has voices talking to them in their head, kills a person, are they locked away in jail and given the death penalty? No..they are removed from society becasue they are a danger and placed in a mental institution for treatment.Now, I'm not saying InSearch is mentally deranged, but I'm saying there is a psychological difference in the ways he sees life based on extenuating circumstances in his life. Do we tolerate outbursts/callous comments/etc with the hope of getting through to him and perhaps helping/changing his ways or do we say good riddance?

I vote:Quote:tolerate outbursts/callous comments/etc with the hope of getting through to him and perhaps helping/changing his waysBut that's just me.

Thanks, sdp, your analogy was better than mine.

I just think people are more inclined to treat physically handicapped people better than mentally handicapped...All handicapped means is that someone can't do things the way the rest of us can.

Damn..I'm "getting a girl" handicapped. But hellz yeah, sdp is the man with them there analogies.

its not just me saying it to him you know. it seems that every comment i make at the guy im being told off about it. all i meant in me saying "bye" was "bye", nothing more. he's disrespectful to us, but yet im the bad one.anyway i dont care anymore, so im not having anyhting to do with it from here on

I see that we're deleting any post with any mention of Steve?

yup i can see the text. i guess its more of a periwinkle color lol.mines purpleish background and i see black text unless i change it myself.

hey yah it disappeared.... :S

haha wow! Damn you're fast...

This is probably why, there isn't really any need for more "Where is Steve?" conversations. Lets all just sit back and be happy that we now have a chance again to reach the title of Highest Post Count.

There enough off topic posts to go around.. don't need another here.