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Originally Posted By: DxLISHxISx_43I don't know, quite a few of my friends had a great relationship with thier moms. They didn't always like what was said, but at least they had the lines of communication open. Of course, none of them really dated any asshole guys....I was the 'lucky' one that did that. Well then, I guess you and your friends are "Special". That doesn't happen too often... Good for you!

Special?? Ok...wow.

Lucky you... huh?:O)

Quote: You've never been hit on?Nope..

Lol, either you didn't realize it, or you just haven't been around enough bacholorette parties...

I'm thinking its the latter. I can't say a girl has ever hit on me. If she did then it has been a looonnggg time and I didn't realize it back then.

my 17 YO is currently single, but I didnt like tha last one, I just have a problem tolerating stupidity, nad she was stoopid.The other one is 15 and not allowed to date till hes 16 so no worries till next christmas.Iv never noticed girls checking him out but the cashier at the grocery store hit on me last night, asked me for my number and a date, she got pissy when I told her I was married (Im not, but may as well be, its a matter of time is all and she does live with me for the past 4 years now and has a big ass rock on her finger)it occured to me, men never lie and say they are married only that they are not married so why did this girl freak out on me for saying I was married and thought I was a liar?goofy bitch.

I've always sorta been the boyfriend parents like. Responsible, smart, simple, respectful. That is more than likely THE reason why I had such bad relationships in High School. haha. "My parents like you, thus you aren't cool anymore."My parents seem to trust my judgment on the girls I date. Whether they like them or not, I dunno, but they have never said anything about it.Also, if/when I end up with a daughter.... I could have grandchildren and insist she's a virgin. I don't want to think about that. Ahh... Feels like fingernails on a chalkboard this thinking about it.

It's your raw animal magnetism, there Chance. She just couldn't deal with the fact that such a bad boy could already be taken. Actually it sounds, to me, like she found a reason to not like you (your a liar) thus its easy for her to move on from the rejection. You gotta remember that there are plenty of women for who a guys marriage to another woman means nothing. Guys don't need to lie about being married to get a woman to say yes. Maybe she thought you should hook-up with her whether your married or not.

Originally Posted By: RainNightBlue

I've always sorta been the boyfriend parents like. Responsible, smart, simple, respectful.
I was like that. All my womens parents loved and thought I was such a wonderful young man. Of course, I was a con.

Originally Posted By: RainNightBlue

"My parents like you, thus you aren't cool anymore."
That problem I didn't have. I treated all the girls I went out with shitty enough and was distant enough from them, that all stayed with me until I dumped 'em. I guess they thought they could fix me, were gluttons for punishment, had self esteem issues or just wanted to see what happen next enough so, that they wouldn't leave. I treated 'em like dirt too. They meant nothing to me and I let 'em no it no uncertain terms. That's not something I'm proud of, just the way I was way back there.

ti was snowing and windy, I just stopped to get milk and some drinks and snacks for combating munchies. So, Julie waited in the truck (ID just picked her up from work and was on our way home((she WILL not drive in snow if she can get out of it in any way)) I offered to let her carry my shit to the truck and meet my wife, she got pissier and walked off. Fuck her, goofey bitch.At this point I actually dont know why she would be interested. I currently look like grizzly fucking adams with a full FULL bear beard and long hair. I was wearing a hoodie with a leather trench coat over it and just te hood sticking out e collar and some black levis with balck motor cycle boots and my long hair sticking out in various places around the hood and sunglasses on my headd at night.If my bad boy looks attracted her she must of been a real fucking psycho. I looked closer to charles manson than grizzley adams.but on a sorta odd side note, Julies mother remarried several years ago, lives in a cabin in the woods these days and her name is adams. We go spend a weekend down there once a month or so, and the last time I had people in town compare me to grizzley adams when I was taking a walk one day.well Ok its nto really that funyn or odd but im too lazy to delete all I jsut typed so fuck it, it stays.

another side note.I dont think her dad much cares for me, I mean who can like the guy thats fucking his daughter? but we get along OK.Her mother and one sister absolutely love me though, and her step dad as well.Her mom calls me as much as she calls her and alwyas concerned about how I am and if Im OK. Her step tells me on the front deck watching deer drinking coffee in teh mornings about how much she hated julz ex and what a prick everyone she dated was but thinks Im the best thing to ever happen to her.apparently, women love me, its fathers that hate me. I would never worrie about making a good impression on the father, I think its jsut an immpossible thing to do. make friends wiht the mother and your in forever.I thogth i shuold post this to get it back on to topic

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That problem I didn't have. I treated all the girls I went out with shitty enough and was distant enough from them, that all stayed with me until I dumped 'em. I guess they thought they could fix me, were gluttons for punishment, had self esteem issues or just wanted to see what happen next enough so, that they wouldn't leave. I treated 'em like dirt too. They meant nothing to me and I let 'em no it no uncertain terms. That's not something I'm proud of, just the way I was way back there.

that's horrible but I'm proud of you for changing. i know alot of guys like that and alot of girl friends who are those types that say "oh I can change him" when they treat the girls like crap. still don't know how someone can be that naive.

Lol peoples parents usually love me... I dunno how much thats affected my relationship status.. could have something to do with the status thou... I've always been the "good boy"..

However, I think a lot of it has to do with me being esoteric to a large degree.

in front of them I'm the a “good boy” but behind them I’m corrupting their daughter……. naughty grinShe Isn’t so innocent herself tho. Her dad knows that. lol

Lol this is why I'm glad to be in college... I don't have to meet the parents. And they don't have to meet mine (thank goodness XD)..

pfffftyou never do actually.Iv been with my woman for uhhh I dont know how many years now.my mom still has never met her mother.they can meet at the wedding, if then.