I'M WORRIED

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I've never had any kind of abnormal things around my genitals except for a black head or ingrown hair, something like that...but right where the shaft begins I've got two red bumps (one about the size of a small cold sore, and the other the size of a small pimple, but they don't pop out really..) theyre just on the skin and i can barely feel them. A week ago when they first came up, I was able to pop them like a pimple. But these two haven't went away. So I'm kinda worried as theyre both almost on the shaft. They don't hurt unless I pinch them or something like that. They get red of course when I irritate them. I'm GUESSING theyre staying around for so long because I'm paranoid..I keep messing with them, and causing them to get irritated and not go away.....HOPEFULLY thats the case...I can't find any pictures on the net that look like it either sorry. When it comes to sex, I've been with around 15 girls, all from last summer to today. Last week I had sex with around 3, I know that sounds kind of bad. But by now do you think I would be seeing signs of anything bad? PLEASE get back to me on this one friends!

That many partners certainly increases your chances of being exposed to something and it is entirely possible that your messing around with these spots has caused irritation.You would be wise to avoid any further sexual encounters until you obtain a medical opinion from someone more qualified than you're going to find here.

Well as soon as I noticed the spots, I haven't even touched a girl. Honestly....I think I'm gonna be to embarresed to go to the doc. What if its just black heads? I'll feel dumb. And what if its herpes? I dunno what I would do.....idk, its got me worried pretty bad.

People go to the doctor all the time and find out that the symptoms they have are not life threatening; others go and find out that it's a good thing they sought out a doctor when they did.
Embarrassment is understandable, but most doctors have seen many things, including male genitals (which are all made alike). Wouldn't it be worth it to stop worrying?

Hey dont worry ive had a similar thing, but without the sex lol! basicaly its where you have dammaged the skin on your shaft, its very thin. Leave them alone and they should go away, but if you are still worries go see a doc, ant gona hert and it wll put your mind at rest.Cheers

Yeah your both right. I havent been with any girls thats been with alot of men, theyre all clean girls. The skin where the two small bumps are located is just thin like you said, and takes more time to heal, and maybe is why I'm just worried so much I guess....but I do realize I should go see the doc for a checkup...a person to be with that many girls is ignorant to not go I know.....

You're wiser than you realize. While your girls maybe haven't been with a lot of men, what about the men they've been with? Have they been with a lot of girls who've been with a lot of men, who've been with a lot of girls....?You get the picture.

You've slept with 15 girls since summer, 3 of them were last week and you're telling me they were all clean? I'm sorry, more often than not the kind of girl who will jump into bed that quickly is not going to be pristine.

Originally Posted By: readytogoYou're wiser than you realize. While your girls maybe haven't been with a lot of men, what about Sorry, but there's nothing wise about screwing 15 girls in a year, 3 in one week.

Quote:Sorry, but there's nothing wise about screwing 15 girls in a year, 3 in one week. I won't argue with you about that, but the point I was responding to was:  Quote: but I do realize I should go see the doc for a checkup...a person to be with that many girls is ignorant to not go I know.....

No no no, yall please don't think I'm bragging about anything. I love to party, and drink u know? And whenever any good looking girl wants to mess around, its hard for me to turn them down, especially when I'm drunk. I was only being honest so people could try and help me out with advice, not drag on me. I don't think its a good thing....before summer of last year, i was a virgin...I was with a girl for a year and a half...we planned on having sex with each other so she could be my first and all of that...she cheated on me after all that time...after that, i got out with more people, and i guess got that "i dont care" attitude around girls u know? not justifying my actions...ever since i was worried enough to post on here...i haven't had sex since...its making me sick at the thought of sex right now.

I think you're going to get to a doctor and have tests run to be sure. They may be just pimples or ingrown hairs or something like that, but from your descriptions, which are rather vague, I don't think herpes or molluscum can be ruled out.

Ok well from pictures from google & yahoo I definetly don't have molluscum, and i'm positive it isn't herpes. but the only reason im posting about it on here are two reasons, what if it turns out to be something, and its only in early stages or something? and second, i just haven't had two bumps on my shaft like this before....they don't look abnormal or nothing, they don't hurt, they don't grow and theyre not really going away quick.....so if it looks normal, in most cases isn't it normal? hopefully im just freaking out over nothing....and i swear the day their completely gone im going to be extremely careful with whom i have sex with, or not have sex at all....i hate thinking last year i was a virgin...and now i'm on here a year later........

I'm hoping your right. If things get worse, I will go see the doc...I'm honestly just too embaressed. I'm just gonna sit around and see what happens I guess....thinking about all my guy friends when they think its awesome when you get laid at a party, the more sex the cooler you are.......what abunch of MORONS!

What is it that you are embarrassed about?On another topic, have you given any thought that one or more of these girls might turn up pregnant?

Not really, I've used a condom all but two times, my first time and one from around last month. It crosses my mind that maybe a condom has broke or something yeah, but I'm pretty confident I'm safe when it comes to not getting a girl pregnant. So I guess if I'm that safe using condoms then I should be good not having an std?

Chances of not getting an STD are better when using condoms, but you are not 100% safe. Why is it that you had the two bareback encounters?

Well the first time we tried with & without, we made out all night long. The second time was just one of those for the hell of it kind of things I guess...But unless she had an std, I think I should be okay...the girl I lost my virginity to was a virgin also, so I'm good there too. Oh..and what is the normal time span from an encounter with herpes to when you notice the changes in your body?

Condoms don't provide complete protection from STDs. Some STDs like herpes and genital warts and molluscum are transmitted by skin-skin contact, and can infect skin outside what it covered by a condom.

1-30 days after sex. Have you experienced any itching or burning?