Sex
don't know where this question goes.
but i recently started having "sex" but I need to know how I can last longer...
its all foreplay for like 20 mins and as soon as we started having sex ...BOOM i cum, and that's the end of the night...its embarassing what do i do?
Welcome to A2A, dust1359.Have you tried girl-on-top positions?
Think about anything non-sexual. Mentally doubling numbers is a good one. Start with 1 and keep doubling the number in your head till it's so large you can't go on. Then try doubling 3, then 7, etc.I've always felt sex was more mental than physical. If I was really, really horny and roaring to go I'd pop almost instantly. However if I was tired but my gf was really in the mood it'd usually become a chore to get myself off.
haha alright doubling numbers, dead puppies...ive heard go that masturbating off pre-sex is good?.....do people who do this actually get it up right after they cum.Also, whats the best way to 'insert' my dick into the forbidden land without fumbling around too much?...this is another department i have trouble with..it takes a while fo rme
Masturbating beforehand can be helpful in lasting longer, at least for some people. Usually people who do this aren't doing it immediately before sex - it's more likely to be before they left home.A lady will often give a gentleman a guiding hand, since she knows best exactly where it has to go.
just keep practicing and youll get better at it. I usually jack off in the morning if I think I'm going to have sex that night, In my case it does make it last longer by taking the edge off but I dont like to do it too soon before we're going to have sex. its almost impossible to glide right in untless she guides you in. Its ok to ask her Im sure it will be more comfortable for her and it shows you care.
also, sometimes the more you have sex. you can start to hold off longer. as someone mentioned above it's almost like a mental thing to hold yourself from cumming.
That's probably because those affected are becoming used to the feel and touch and the presence of another actual person there. Once those things get "boring" both parties will have better -endurance- and let the other, more sexual things get them to climax other than the new feeling of another body, another set of skin, another set of organs, and such.At least, that's as far as far as I know.
yea i had a problem of lasting longer and wha did this was a long time ago when all i got was handjobs. this may sound a little painful bt it really isnt unless you do it too much but i got those nail file things its like sand paper kinda but not as rough and basically made my dick slightly callis over a period of about a week.. it worked very well ust remebeer to go easy.. because callis skin doent have as many nerv ending kind of like your hand
Originally Posted By: dust1359don't know where this question goes.but i recently started having "sex" but I need to know how I can last longer...its all foreplay for like 20 mins and as soon as we started having sex ...BOOM i cum, and that's the end of the night...its embarassing what do i do? at least you can go off.. it takes me hours
