ok so i'm not really sure where the proper place to post this is, but...me and my friend just got home from practice. Both of my parents were out of town, so i had the house to myself. Well, my friend and i were wondering what was in my attic. so...we went up there and found loads of porn, lubricants, and even a freaking fleshlight! what a shocker, right? so me and my friend started looking through all of it...there were so many dvd's and movies and everything.Thats like mad gross. Ew my old dad watching porn and jacking off, and using a fleshlight...ewww. But I guess I have to be chill with it...i mean, i watch porn so i dont know why i'm so suprised that he does. I wonder if i'm gonna feel awkward around him now? not that i spend very much time around my parents anyway, but still! Man i dont know!!CRAZY!!
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Dad's Porn...
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Don't over think it. I'd suggest just forgetting you ever found it. People have had wierder situations and still had normal relationships with their parents.Or at least I walked in on em during sex when I was about 16... and not much changed.Then again.. the more i look at it hte more i realise i've always been emotionally distant from them anyway.
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yea i guess your right! but i really don't have much of a relationship with either one of my parents...bad/weird situation...anyways i get what your saying it's still crazy though!
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Meh. My parents could die and as long as my college and lawschool was still paid for what do I care?If you really have had that many wierd situations with your parents odds are you emotional distant enough for it to not really matter I would think.Then again I am use to the *edit farce of civility.
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Things don't really change much as you get older. You accumulate more experience, which brings a bit more confidence in familiar situations, but underneath you're still the same. Parents are in a position of authority over their children, but beneath that there's not much difference between them.So guys who are interested in porn and who masturbate regularly in their teens (i.e. just about all guys) tend to keep the same interests in the coming decades, even if they visit these interests somewhat less often. Having children changes your life (and means you have much less time), but it doesn't completely change your personality.Seeing your parents as more equal, and parents seeing their offspring as more equal, are good things to happen as you get through the teens, I think.
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Welcome to the realization that your parents are human beings not so very different from yourself, with all the same needs, wants and desires. All this recognition means is that you have achieved another step, of many, toward maturity.Any awkwardness will pass with time.
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You're so profound Scotty!
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Well, I'm something, though I doubt it's profound.
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... maybe profane.That sounds more like it.
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Well, I agree with what Nny said. He's a person, and you realize that and he has his own needs, and there really isn't much to be ashamed of here so it probably is best if you never bring it up. I found my dad's porn once. It was REALLY hard to find. I mean, whoever thinks of looking under the bed? Psh. But I'm pretty sure he doesn't even have the time to use all that stuff anymore, seeing as how it was dusty and bagged up like old sandals put under the bed for the summer. Maybe that's the deal with your dad, too.
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ok my addition will scare you, ever think that you mom and dad watch it together and well you know
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lmao!
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why does it gross you outhe has a dick -has to masturbateyou have a dick -has to masturbateget the picture?plus it's no big deal, my dad gives me some of his porn that he buys, it's a guy thing
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About the awkward bit, I was caught masturbating by my dad, and i don't feel awkward around him. He's my Dad, there shouldn't be.
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That fucks me up.I have 3 brothers and 3 sons and I dont want to crank a load out by hand with any of them, or my dad.
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Originally Posted By: HelmsmaN
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Some guys masturbate WITH their dad, brother or cousin and shrug it off saying, "it's a guy thing". Does that gross you out?
i dont think its gross at all
me and my cousin did it a couple times when we were little and learning
we didn't do it to eachother though
haha