Best Sex is Short and Sweet

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Best Sex is Short and SweetBy LiveScience Staffposted: 31 March 2008 ETA survey of experts yields good news for anyone who thought their sexual efforts didn't last long enough. Good sex typically lasts 13 minutes or less, not counting foreplay. Penn State Erie researchers Eric Corty and Jenay Guardiani surveyed members of the Society for Sex Therapy and Research, which includes psychologists, physicians, social workers, marriage/family therapists and nurses who have collectively treated thousands of patients over several decades. The results debunk the myth of hours-long sex as a reasonable goal that lingers in the minds of many supposed under-achievers. A total of 34 experts responded to the survey and were asked what they thought was the optimal time for intercourse, from penetration to ejaculation. On average, the respondents in this relatively small survey ranked a duration of 3 to 7 minutes as adequate and 7 to 13 minutes as desirable. Anything less was considered, on average, to be to short and anything more, too long. "A man’s or woman’s interpretation of his or her sexual functioning as well as the partner’s relies on personal beliefs developed in part from society’s messages, formal and informal," the researchers said. "Unfortunately, today’s popular culture has reinforced stereotypes about sexual activity. Many men and women seem to believe the fantasy model of large penises, rock-hard erections and all-night-long intercourse. " Past research has found that a large percentage of men and women say they want sex to last 30 minutes or longer, the researchers say. "This seems a situation ripe for disappointment and dissatisfaction," said lead author Eric Corty, associate professor of psychology. "With this survey, we hope to dispel such fantasies and encourage men and women with realistic data about acceptable sexual intercourse, thus preventing sexual disappointments and dysfunctions." The results will be published in the May issue of the Journal of Sexual Medicine.  Quote:Past research has found that a large percentage of men and women say they want sex to last 30 minutes or longer, the researchers say. 30 minutes not including foreplay. Fuck that I got shit to do.

Yeah, quick root before sleep or a quickie in the morning is always great. So long as you both get off once, what more is needed? Nothing more frustrating IMO than thrusting away trying to cum but not being able to, for one reason or another.

30 minutes! The num-nums would be numb-numb! 10-15 minutes is usually all that is needed, of course, foreplay MUST be included. So if you stick that on there, hours is a possibility...num-NUM!

Yeah, gotta agree. Besides if I go to long Willy the one eye wonder worm is just numb and tired and ain't nothin' gonna happen.

I'm all for short and sweet too!

Your short and sweet?Hell, you didn't have to tell me that.

anythign less than an hour including foreplay is a quicky!

Oh shit. A quicky is, "bend over the desk before I gotta get back to the office," :smirk:

If thats all I got time for, I just jerk off.

Wait... but what about those guys who go 2-3 hours and make their girl come 100 times!!!!?????

They have way to much time on their hands... with their hands... and over active imaginations.

Ahhhh.. I see.

Im Ok with the 2 or 3 hour sessions on weekends when we can sleep in, but I dont think I ever made her cum 100 times in a single night!she would be dehydrated and dead! Not sure that is a bad way to die however...

Well, it looks like you're a F'n wuss if you can't make her cum 100 times..

I got money says i can make her cum 100 times!we are talking over the month right?and foreplay with toys counts as well as oral sex, not jsut the dicking part?

No, no it's been well established in this thread that foreplay doesn't count... this is just dickin'.

well then, I withdraw my wager. I need all of the time and the tools to do it right, and if ya dont do it right, what really is the fucking point of doing it?

Just tell me your tools don't involve anything with larger than a 1/2HP motor or a speculum or electrodes or any of the plethora of other weird shit I've seen....Sometimes kinky can go off the deep end... or in the deep end... or something like that.

actually I was thinking of a rabbit maybe some finger tip vibes, soem lube, possibly that shit that gets hot when ya blow on it and tastes like blueberry, 30 calender days, and some massage oil made form hemp seed in the grass sent. some shit along those lines.

those guys are the young ones with energy and an actual sex drive.