Scrathing And Biting

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why do you always have to be so damn negative to me!!! I SAID THAT I FUCKED UP VIRTUAL! IS THAT NOT ENOUGH!!! I DONT FUCKING LIKE MY LIFE HOW IT IS! AND I HAVE ALOT OF PROBLEMS AND YOU DONT HELP WHAT SO EVER!!!NIGGA and NIGGER are two different words, you wouldnt know that cause of the way you grew up...nigger is a deragotory way, and we even fuck up black people for using that wordmy ancestors, or predecessors whatever you'd like to call them, embraced the word, they said "you know what, them crackers wanna call us a nigger, fuck it den, we'll flip it, and use it as a friendly phrase" theres nothing disrespectful about calling your close friend a nigga, its like you calling a friend buddy... you just dont understand the concept...LETS NOT ALSO FORGET THA FACT THAT I WAS FUCKING TIPSY/DRUNK!they picked on my race for being cuban and black, but being light skinned... cholo mexicans dont believe in interrace couples, nor babies...we already talked about this situation with this girl that is "pregnant" i dont even know if its mine, all i know is she is trying to get me caught up with it... like ive told u beforeits fucked up that instead of helping someone you insult them and push them down lower...im already stressed out and emotionally fucked up about the situation, i dont want to be my father or step father, they beat me and my mom, and they tried to beat my sisters I STEPPED IN AND PROTECTED THEM!!! you have me in fucking tears, because no matter how hard i try, im always put down, in life, even on the fucking internet... its really difficult for me, and only rad and ineligible are here for me

Virtual_Star, your tone comes across as supercilious and "holier than thou". It's not hypocritical to blunt a term of abuse by using it yourself. It's actually a practice with a fine tradition.

Looking down your nose at other people because they drink, or for any other reason that you think makes them beneath you, is not a good look. None of us are free from the beams in our own eyes.

Quote:NIGGA and NIGGER are two different words, you wouldnt know that cause of the way you grew up...No they are not. One is just the sugar coated verson of the other. Anyone can tell you this.  Quote:my ancestors, or predecessors whatever you'd like to call them, embraced the word, they said "you know what, them crackers wanna call us a nigger, fuck it den, we'll flip it, and use it as a friendly phrase" You do know I'm not going to believe that, right?  Quote:theres nothing disrespectful about calling your close friend a nigga, its like you calling a friend buddy... you just dont understand the concept...Feel free to continue believing that. Whatever helps blind you from the truth to make you happy.  Quote:LETS NOT ALSO FORGET THA FACT THAT I WAS FUCKING TIPSY/DRUNK!That's not an excuse.  Quote:its fucked up that instead of helping someone you insult them and push them down lower...I'm not trying to push you lower. All I'm doing is telling you what I see from what you type. And if you can't see that, then you can't help yourself. If you don't own up to all these mistakes you're making, you're only going to sink further down. Take all these mistakes, learn from them, and better yourself. No one is going to do this for you. You need to do it yourself. Crying in the corner about how bad your life is isn't going to do shit.How do you expect to help others if you can't help yourself?  Quote:you have me in fucking tears, because no matter how hard i try, im always put down, in life, even on the fucking internet... its really difficult for me, and only rad and ineligible are here for me Then try harder. You think I'm bad? Wait until you get to the real world.

Quote:Virtual_Star, your tone comes across as supercilious and "holier than thou". It's not hypocritical to blunt a term of abuse by using it yourself. It's actually a practice with a fine tradition.I seriously disagree.  Quote:Looking down your nose at other people because they drink, or for any other reason that you think makes them beneath you, is not a good look. None of us are free from the beams in our own eyes. A kid drinking because he has problems is something I can never have empathy or sympathy for. I was once seventeen and still have problems, but I don't fool myself into doing something that helps the mind escape reality. Sorry, but that's all I can really say.ADDED: Originally Posted By: RadecklOut of everything he's ever said on this board, I don't think there's any truer statement than this:  Originally Posted By: GrownPastMyYearsi love all yall fuckin people... bujt all i can do is wish i get the love back... Like I said earlier, he's going to need to try harder. It shouldn't really matter what I say anyway since I'm never going meet this guy or have our lives intertwine. But I personally am just not that easily forgiving or "soft" for anyone I can't see myself respecting. I can force it but I'd be lying to myself.

Im not going to come into this thread and bash you, im not going to tell you whats wrong in your life or what your doing wrong in your life, because you know thAt whole story yourself, because your living it. Im coming in here to tell you that i respect you. Some people here have a bad perception on you, but i have myself have and i still am living a horrible life. Ive been through alot myself, and i know what its like to fight to survive everyday. I know what its like to live a nightmare. I understand what you are going through, because i myself have been there done that. Maybe not the same situations but situations that are similar enough to where i can relate to you.You have my support bro, and i like you. If you ever need to talk about shit you can message me, youve got me on your myspace friends list, you know how to get in contact with me. You can anytime you need to. Goodluck brother, i hope shit turns around for you.-Much Love MMA

Quote:Yeah, I love you, too!But, you do need to quit drinking and doing drugs.Get your life straight and get back in school.Vent on A2A all you need, but quit giving all those quacky comments & advice that harms. You know, once you've given some bad advice, it's hard to take it back!I'd love to see all your dreams come true and maybe, someday they will.But, for now, you need to be a learning kid and get an education.Listen to some people in here and quit arguing so much just to try to prove them wrong.Just do the best you can. That's all we can ask.{{{HUGS}}} I totally agree with this. There is nothing more I can add to Rad except good luck GPMY!

I'm usually on your side, especially when it comes to GPMY, but he's... kind of right. Words only carry the meaning that we bestow to them...

I think you dislike him so much, that you constantly feel the need to bring him down =/ Let it go.

ditto

thank you, for what you wrote... sure there only a combination of letters, vowels, and syllables, but when added with correct spacing they make up words and statements... and what you wrote means alot to me...but im still a lil shocked at this part...  Quote: I'm usually on your side, especially when it comes to GPMY, but he's... LONG PAUSE kind of right.

If you need anything, I'm here. And pretty good at not judging from post to post.

thank you, i sincerely appreciate that