hey
I've been working w/ a girl for a couple months..."chemistry" is there. I'm 18, she's 27.
Is there a reason she hasn't asked me for MY phone number?
Should I ask her for hers or ask her out or is this a work-only thing?
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"What's your phone number?"
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She might feel she ought to wait for you to ask. Or she might feel the age difference, or the work colleague situation, or both, make it a bad idea. The only way to find out is to ask her.
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There's only one way to know, ask.
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well there is only one way to find out, but be careful cuz there is a chance if she "declines" it could be awkward to work with her.....
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don't be afraid to askoh, and Happy Birthday 3turns rosie
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Tonight I ended up asking her...First time seeing her since the post actually. I did get it.I only work with her a handful more times before she's finished there. Do I call her while she's still working there or after, or if I'm still going to be seeing her in person a few more times should I ask her if she'd like to do something then instead of a call??
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I suppose it depends how difficult it might be to work with her if she decides she wants no more than friendship. If it might be difficult you could wait until her last day to make an actual date; otherwise you could try sooner. In any case I hope you would talk in a getting-to-know-you way first.Talking face-to-face is better than a call, when possible.
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Originally Posted By: CockRockerheyI've been working w/ a girl for a couple months..."chemistry" is there. I'm 18, she's 27.Is there a reason she hasn't asked me for MY phone number?Should I ask her for hers or ask her out or is this a work-only thing? Perhaps she doesn't want to be a babysitter !!!
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Originally Posted By: Roc Originally Posted By: CockRockerheyI've been working w/ a girl for a couple months..."chemistry" is there. I'm 18, she's 27.Is there a reason she hasn't asked me for MY phone number?Should I ask her for hers or ask her out or is this a work-only thing? Perhaps she doesn't want to be a babysitter !!! Maybe. How ever my life isn't very far off key to an adults. I'd say my maturity is on the high side for an 18yr old. My youngest brother is 28, oldest 38. w/ 3 spread out in between(I say this to refer to why I think I'm a little more on the mature side as I've kind of been following them my whole life) and my Mom hardly ever gets involved with my life because I don't need her as a leg to stand on.
