NO CONDOM...WHAT THE HELL

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it feels better for you guys with one but better for us girls with out only had sex without one once but it was great.

I will say that the first month or two of my sexual activity as a teen, I used the hell out of some condoms...about 2 dozen a week, give or take. But after my g/f went on BC, we didn't bother. Little did I know at the time, but I was shooting blanks all along (found out my first year in the Army). Even with the STDs floating around out there, I still didn't use condoms very often with other women in the military, because we were a somewhat controlled group and got tested all the time for STDs. Hell, we carried our test results in our wallets!Sometime later, my boys started making good swimmers, but in the meantime, the rhythm method worked quite well for many years. I would simply come inside, since I was shooting blanks.Then I met my wife and the chemistry was right. You see, chemistry plays a lot in baby-making. If the woman's pH and natural immune system is hostile to the man's sperm, he may never get her pregnant. Lucky for me, my sperm was healthy and strong and she got pregnant our first time. Also lucky for me, I had not contracted some form of incurable STD. Those days are far behind me now.Anyone who says that it feels the same with a rubber on must be a novice. Sheepskin condoms are more sensual than latex, but don't protect against STD's. I do advocate condoms for anal play, as there is nothing much more painful than getting an infection in the slit of your dick because some bad bacteria got into it when you had your jimmy up some girl's butt. But, if you choose not to follow my advice, you can still shoot off in her bowels without running the risk of getting her pregnant!

Actually you can still get a girl pregnant even by anal. It is possible for some seamen to leak down into the vagina. I may be wrong, but that is what I have been told. Just plain and simple: use a condom unless you are a couple/married and you both agree that you want kids. That is as simple as it gets. Remember that saying, better safe then sorry? Well its best application is here.

It's not just pre-cum you have to worry about. Most of time, most guys will "ooze" a little actual cum during intercourse and before orgasm. You can witness this if you masterbate, and slow down and stop a bit just before you cum, and wait a bit, then start again. Do this a couple or a few times and you'll likely see some semen come out. For some guys it's a lot, for some it's very little. But realize a tiny, single drop of cum from a guy who is producing normal amounts of sperm will contain millions of those little guys.. and it only takes one determined swimmer. If you must do it without the pill or barrier methods, consider looking into "FAM" (Fertility Awareness Method). Google it, you should find some useful information.

does wearing a condom take away from the man's pleasure?

yep. They make condoms to accomadate for the feel but I haven't used one of those before.

I'm still a virgin so I've never used a condom. I've always invisioned myself as using one because I feel it would increase the pleasure for both of us. Obviously I wouldn't want ot risk getting a girl pregnant whenever my time comes. So they make condoms to pleasure each sex?

yeah. They make condoms that have room to slide back on forth, which is for the guys pleasure, and then they make condoms are ribbed, studded, etc etc. They also have body heat sensitive condoms that heat up during sex. lol. There are all kinds. I'm not sure about the heating condoms. Anyone ever try these?

I haven't tried "heating up" condoms, but I have tried self-warming lubrication (like KY warming liquid). The addition of warmth better approximates the feeling that you get without a condom. I've also tried the extra-spacious (to increase sensitivity) condoms from both Trojan and Durex--they're nice, but you still get diminished sensitivity. Finally, I've tried the ribbed and studded condoms. My partners have always told me that they barely notice the difference, so it's usually not worth it.

If you look at the directions on bottles of lubrication, they note that adding a small amount of lubrication on the inside of the condom, at the tip, can also increase sensitivity for a male. I've found this to be true. Specifically, I've found that the combination of an extra-sensitive condom and a drop of KY warming liquid on the inside tip of the condom best approximates the sensation that you experience with no condom at all.

Thanks websexinfo. You've got lots of info to give out. lol