because i thought they were my close friends! CLOSE! and OBVIOUSLY THEY ARENT. and what do you want me to do wear long sleeves every day? no. im not suffering over my appearance. what else am i supposed to cut? i already slashed up my belly, arm works better. leg scars dont fade. i dont care what you think of it, i like it and i think it feels awesome and thats all that counts. no one can tell me what i cant enjoy. you think its sick? who are you to judge me? if im not making any sense or anything at the moment its because im tired and pissed off
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WTF!
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I'm not saying anything against what you do, but why do you cut yourself? I just don't understand the point of it. You cut your skin and let yourself bleed or something like that? I'd never heard of it before this thread.
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see thats how i feel why should i have to wear long sleeves every day i dunno about the enjoying it part but i don't judge ppl so but i'm glad you don't care what ppl think of you and i don't think you realy have any right to call ppl sick diver i mean your suppose to have compassion and be nice seeing you own the site but i dunno
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thank you
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#1 I don't own the site and do not get paid for being here#2 I also harm, so am entitled to my own personal opinions. Personally I would rather do anything than harm, and personally find it sick that people do it for enjoyment. I suppose my instructor was right the other month when he said that most of the people that harm are little school girls between 12 - 16
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to the cutter there is nothing wrong with it at the time of cutting its a wounderful thing a great relise. The cutter is proud of what he or she may have done but most of the time only until reality kicks in the kicking in of the fact in the morning your going to have to try and hide your lovley markings or you are going to have to go see a doctor to get your lovley cut sorted. does this stop the cutter from cutting? NO does it fuck a cutter loves to cut becouse they feel inpower in control of what they are doing they feel relaxed relived whatever, they feel better. A cutter needs more than words to be helped a cutter needs action and understanding . Understanding a cutter is hard to a no n or ex cutter ok i dont know why the fuck im writting this cause remeber like sexpot says you cant understand a fucking thing i say can you so it wouldnt matter then to any of you cause you cant understand this shittin post
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as someone who has attempted suiside twice - i would say they ARE your friend and are concerned about your welfair.
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how is it sick? it feels good, so i do it. its like masturbation. do you think thats sick? (dont answer that lol)
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its pretty much the same idea
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people can enjoy cutting themseleves n you can compare it to wanking becouse people enjoy that but in a diffrent way
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In reply to: ..it feels so good, so I just do it.. I can understand that. It's along the lines of BDSM, except without the sex part. Some people tend to enjoy hurting themselves for some reason I don't know. Pain somehow turns to pleasure, maybe it's just a part of the teenage experience. I theorize that, for men, when they do it, it's all a part of their hormones telling them they're invincible, for women, however, I am clueless. I'm going to do some research on this one.
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In reply to:I'm guessing one of them isn't really your best friendNot sure I agree with that one. I'm guessing one of them was worrying themselves sick about you and told your mum out of concern, not to piss you off.And people please...there are these things called full-stops and commas. Familiarise yourselves with them, for the love of God
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lol when you spend enough time on the board... lol you'll get used to it lol
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fuking weird ass people!!! DAMN!"hi, I like cutting myself and causing pain and making myself bleed because its so fuking cool and feels awesome!!"WTF!!!!!!!!! Did your mom do crack or some shit when she was pregnant with you????Be unique by your hobbies, being good at sports, knowing interesting facts about certain topics, not by cutting yourself and being like "OMG I LIKE TO CAUSE PAIN TO MYSELF CAUSE I ROXOR AND AM DIFFERENT, DONT QUESTION ME!!"shit....
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Why bother showing your ignorance? All your post says is "I don't understand, and I have such a high opinion of myself that I think that anything I don't understand must be beneath me".
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there is nothing to understand!!!!!!!!!but I am all ears for the benefits, or logical reasons for cutting ones self.Why do you bother showing your ignorance??? By merely accepting that anything anyone does must be ok and make sense.
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So just because you don't see the logic or benefits in something, that make it unacceptable for other people to do?
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what someone does is there business, but then when that someone trys to tell me its normal and that it is just different but not wrong, its bullshit.But like I previously stated, I am ALL EARS to the benefits and logical reasons that cutting yourself is a good/ok/fun/decent/cool hobby.I cant think of any but maybe its because I am not as elite or genius as some of you so gimme the reasons!!!!
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yes pls, I'd like to see the reasons... I had a gf once who was a cutter and even she knew it was a freaking sickness. She sought help and got over it and she's happier because of it. It happens, it's a sign of depression, but it has no advantages and it should be overcome, not accepted.
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In reply to: like I previously stated, I am ALL EARS to the benefits and logical reasons that cutting yourself is a good/ok/fun/decent/cool hobby. reasons very to who ever it is that is doing it. I’m not a cutter but I do something.. not worse or not better.. and no I 'm not going to tell this forum. I can’t really answer the reasons ( I mean I can for me but I don’t want too) I’m just saying my reason’s are not the same as that's guy's girlfriends or some on this forum. I will say this it's not fun, it's not cool, or good or a hobby. I’m trying my hardest to NOT do it. it's not something u want people to know. I think this is a waste of time but oh well ....bla bla bla..