Would you marry/date someone who revealed to you that once upon a time in her life she was an escort?? Or would you that an escort??
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This is a question for the guys.
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ignorance: What do you mean by an escort? :blush:
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A woman who has sex for money bascially. Not a streetwalker, but through any actually agency. Although it's the same thing, but a lot safer for the girl and more money. Just wondering about this b/c my guy friend just told me his girlfriend is an escort and i was shocked to hell and back and just wanted to know how other guys felt about this issue.
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I wouldn't hold her in very high esteem. I'm sure there is some gray area, but my initial reaction is no.
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Why? What difference would it make if she'd had sex for money or just had sex?
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that is a very tough question! it all depends on your own emotional perceptions of yourself and her. My wife and I were not virgins when we met. Admittedly, i was a ton of flesh further away from virginity than her but that's beside the point.I think of dudes that marry porn stars. He must be very secure in himself. He can hit PLAY on the VCR and see his wife being banged by a double-sised guy. That is difficult.If someone were to marry a hooker (escort, whatever) he would have to realise that, after all she's done, she chose YOU.
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it kind of plays along the unbalanced rules we have- men can fuck around, women are not supposed to be promiscuous.Well, if someone makes some bad decisions but survives them, you don't typically hold it against them unless you are shallow or neurotic, right? After all, if they never told you, you'd still love them, so, what the heck is the difference?That is the rational side of my brain speaking. My gut reaction would probably be reservation and worry.I dated a stripper, but as far as I know stripping is all she ever did. Oh, and she was so gorgeous she could have told me she shot Kennedy and I don't think I would have cared. Yeah, guys can be dumb, but we don't seem to mind it much.
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Come on Dawn! You want to convince me that there is no difference between prostituting yourself and just having "sex"??? (BTW "lots" of casual sex is also not high on my list)
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What is the difference? I don't see a difference. Sex is sex regardless of the reasons you're having it.
I had 15 partners between 2 and 15. Would I be damaged goods to you? Would you find yourself unable to love me?
And I did take money for giving a bj once so am I one of those women you wouldn't want. ;-) -
Correct me if i'm wrong,but didn't you go to high school with guys/girls who were humping on anything and everything?? Everybody who has had sex without a condom with someone you know very well or someone you just had sex with a couple of times is at high risk for std's. I knew my friend's girl before knowing this about her and it haven't affected the way i see her as a person because truth is, she is an awesome human being, she graduated high school, some college, and about to get a license in real estate. When i got the balls and asked her what exactly made her decide that she would do this, this is what she said,"I wasn't a virgin when i became a escort and at that point haven't been for years, and i have had sex with ppl i haven't known very well in my personal life. Being a escort you know what your there for and so do they.I got tired of busting my ass @ chili's everyday and sometimes only making 450 if that for the whole week. Now I can work one or two days and make 600 a week. I fuck anyways and i know who i really am, where i wanna go in life, and the type of person i would like to become why not get paid for it. Meaningless sex is just that whether your getting paid for it or not". Those where here words verbatem, when we were done talking i thought about everything she said and i must agree she made a lot of sense, but by no means does that mean i'll be knocking an agency's door down. And she also said since she has started doing this she has become more health conscience, women wellness test every 3 months (test for every type of std) because you never know and think about it...how many girls who are not working girls actually get tested??? I can't remember who but it was the first reply to this post, you said you would date her but not marry her. Can you really help who you fall in love with??i beleive you can deny your feelings, but the heart has a mind of it's own, I know mine seems to anyway :blush: :smirk: :blush:
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$600 a week!? Uh...I think I'd rather work at chili's.
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I would marry/date a girl that WAS in an escort service at one time. I had a friend that turned into a prostitute/drug dealer, but not because she wanted to.
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How about you read that wrong or maybe I wrote it wrong,600 for two days opposed to 400 maybe for 5 days plus 40 plus hours. So if she or who ever was to actually work 5-7 days as an escort you could possible earn 1500-2100 a week. I've been a server for about 4 years now and i can say that i earn over the average server because of my experience, but I have never earned 1500 in one week.
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I guess I did read that wrong. I took it as $600 a week. Sorry sweetie.
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I don't think it would matter to me, so long as she/he distinguished sex or going out with me from sex/going out with clients. There is a difference between a hookers boyfriend and a hookers client, and I think that sex with a client is just sex whereas sex with a boyfriend or girlfriend really can be called "making love"
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I am dating someone who IS an escort! This is how I met her. She is the most passionate,romatic,caring woman I have ever known. Oh ya and the sex is way hot!!
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youre a lucky man :wink:
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i would be fine with it. I would just be worried about STD's, but once that is cleared up (found that she is clean) i could love her and make love to her, lol.
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it is my understanding that, generally speaking (...i hate generalizing), women who involve themselves in this kind of behavior usually have some underlaying problem which causes them to use themselves in a particular way as a means to make up for some lost attention or to fill the void of some insecurity they have.so to answer your question and to keep myself from rambling i would have to say no, i could not marry/date someone who revealed.....