There is this girl I have class with and she is a total knock and we get along very well. All we do is flirt and make fun of each other and talk about sex. No here is the problem. She has a boyfriend and he and I know each other pretty well. SHe and I do things together and I work out and run with her as well. SHould I try and pursue the path as her for a Girlfriend or should I just let it go.
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Hmm. What to do
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In most groups this is considered a no-no, but some accept it. You could certainly expect the boyfriend to be upset.
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or you could ask your self why is she doing those things with you and not her boyfriend.....
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Yeah. I know her BF is going to be pissed. I am very confused. I have put myself in a perdicament. I hate taking her away for someone and yet I want her so bad.
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Be patient. Wait until she breaks up with this guy. Unless she tells you an opportunity that she'll leave him for you, then go for it.
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Yeah wait until things are over with her and the guy. Obviously she is with the guy for a reason.
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I'd usually same something along the lines of grow some balls and go for it but this situation could be messy if u proceed.
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see that is my problem. Oh forgot to write this:She is very open about her body and I have seen her nude many times in the past few days. BUt she also tells me her and her BF are getting along great.I am I correct to think she is confused.
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She sounds like my ex in a way. If she is like her though, you need to not read into what she's doing as much. There are some girls out there that send out strong yet not intended signals to their male friend.Again, I would still go with my original advice. Just be patient, wait it out. If she gives you an obvious and spoken opportunity that you can have her if you wanted, then go for it. But if not, then just wait. On second thought, don't wait, look into other girls. Although, I know you may not be interested in any other girls when you have feelings for this one. Trust me, I've been there, done that.
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Stuck on the friend side bites. And how would he know that she likes him better than her boyfriend? This girl sounds like the mixed signals chick, so I doubt he'll ever be completely sure.
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OKay, tanks you guys. She has a latino friend in my class and she might be interested in me, I think I will pursue that path.