im almost 16 and i still havent had a boyfriend. im quite pretty but i was a mute for a while and still have a social phobia so i guess people still see me as that. im trying to socalise now so what am i doing wrong? what can i do to attract the guys but not get the mingers stalking me? any guys have any input?
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Why cant i get a bf?
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it happens.
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Don't try so hard, I mean you can't force anyone to be with you. Once you stop trying so hard for for a boyfriend, you'll get one.... that's usually the way it happens. Plus just be yourself, just show people how funny and sweet you are and I'm sure you'll have guys lineing up for your number ^_^ Good luck my friend!
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It's not bizarre not to have a boyfriend at 15. You're doing the right thing. The more you socialize, the more comfortable you will be with people. A relationship will come eventually.(Had to look up "minger". )
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That's not true, it depends on how popular you are and most girls have had one by 15 or 16.
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So you think it's bizarre not to have a boyfriend at 15? Do you think every town in the world is like 90210?
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What does that have to do with anything?
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Do you think every town in the world is like 90210?
Get with the times man! Its all about The OC now!
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Might your background and your environment have played a part in determining what you think is "normal"? Do you really think what's normal where you live is anything like normal for 95% of the rest of the world?It's not bizarre not to have a boyfriend by the time you're 15. It's not bizarre not to have a car or a dozen sex partners by then either.
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You are the poster boy for what I said, and everything worked out just fine at 16, right?
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Actually I'm 17. And my girlfriend at the moment is my first. And I'm happy, cause anything I do with her is legal (almost).
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OK, everything worked out fine 17. You weren't bizarre at 15.
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Nope, I was just horny. And its not like I was holding out for years, I was looking, I just never found someone. But to quote from a movie that is on tv right now, "without the bitter, the sweet just isn't as sweet".
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I was 20 before I went on my first date...I don't think there's anything wrong with you. Just give it time.Are you from the U.K.?
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In reply to: So you think it's bizarre not to have a boyfriend at 15? Do you think every town in the world is like 90210? I agree with SteveA, it's not all that unusual not to have a boyfriend by 15. I mean some girls are still just comming out of the stage were they think all guys have cooties. Don't sweat it, your day will come when you get you're first boyfriend, you just have to give it some time.
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Look at it this way.....would you rather date a bunch of guys starting at a young age and have meaningless relationships just so you can say u had a bf? or would you rather wait it out until you meet someone that you really like when you are old enough to have a mature relationship that could actually have meaning and could be serious?
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im 15 and i have a meaningful relationship, but i wasnt exactly looking for one when it struck me. In fact i'd say if your looking for someone it's actually harder to find them.
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In fact i'd say if your looking for someone it's actually harder to find them.
That is very very true, its actually wierd.
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Oh sweetie, I'm 20 and I've never had a boyfriend. So 15 is nothing. Don't worry about it. I don't believe in meaningless relationships, so I dont go out with guys just to say that I had a boyfriend. You have your whole life. Just be patient.
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Sweetie, people are jerks now-a-days. Most guys at our age only want some things and will only be with the popular girls. i am going thru the exact same problems right now, and i understand. Its difficult when you see all the other girls with boyfriends, kids are rough these days.
