i know that there are probably a lot of other post about this but ive got one questionAre you gay, bi or les?il start by saying i think im gay
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Gay/ bi ot les
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Gay here What makes you think you are possibly gay?
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i think im gay cuz when i wank i usually think of naked guys and doing it with them and ive given my best friend a blowjob so yeah
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I'm Straight, and I only rarely thought otherwise, but I've been told many times that it's good to "get the best of both worlds" (although, I'd rather not)I'd recommend keeping your options open, and trying everything a little bit. Just because you think of guys, doesn't mean you're gay.
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Originally Posted By: pman707i think im gay cuz when i wank i usually think of naked guys and doing it with them and ive given my best friend a blowjob so yeah I think thats kinda normal, a lot of teens do that while experiencing puberty, and most of them end up being straight as adults. I mean if you think your gay then thats fine too, atleast your alright with it and not denying it.
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I'm bi because I'm surrounded by family members, relatives and all, all older than me, that expect a "straight" guy out of me. Plus, I'm the only male in my small primary family and I really do want to carry on the family name. I just can't help have a sexual attraction to guys and now a sexual attraction to girls has been growing.Or maybe I've been trying to have a sexual attraction to girls. I really don't know anymore.I'm bi is all I know for now. For the sake of my family, I'm bi. And I'm trying as hard as I can but sometimes I just feel like I shouldn't even be trying to change. What is is what is, you know? But then again...------------I've been wondering. Do kids in their teens and high school and all really experiment with their sexuality? Because as far as I know that kind of stuff has always been unthought of. I don't know. I know I've thought of it but it's always been more of a fantasy rather than "experimentation." Maybe it's just the school communities I get caught in and my friends or something, but I just don't know. Oh well. Just putting that out there. Not really expecting a reply or antyhing. Really not.
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Originally Posted By: katonsuiitonI'm bi because I'm surrounded by family members, relatives and all, all older than me, that expect a "straight" guy out of me. Plus, I'm the only male in my small primary family and I really do want to carry on the family name. I just can't help have a sexual attraction to guys and now a sexual attraction to girls has been growing.Or maybe I've been trying to have a sexual attraction to girls. I really don't know anymore.I'm bi is all I know for now. For the sake of my family, I'm bi. And I'm trying as hard as I can but sometimes I just feel like I shouldn't even be trying to change. What is is what is, you know? But then again...------------I've been wondering. Do kids in their teens and high school and all really experiment with their sexuality? Because as far as I know that kind of stuff has always been unthought of. I don't know. I know I've thought of it but it's always been more of a fantasy rather than "experimentation." Maybe it's just the school communities I get caught in and my friends or something, but I just don't know. Oh well. Just putting that out there. Not really expecting a reply or antyhing. Really not. Don't change to please others. I think you should be yourself. And kids do experiment with their sexuality.
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Do kids in their teens and high school and all really experiment with their sexuality?
Yes, but only some of them. There are remarkable differences between different groups. Some groups are doing nothing sexually at all, beyond private masturbation; some are engaged in remarkable orgies. One half has no idea how the other half lives. -
I just wanted to take a second and say to be who you are for yourself, and don't be in a big rush to try and figure out exactly who that is. Life is to short and happiness to fleeting to try and be what you think others, regardless how you may love them, want you to be. Let your life find it's own path whether that's gay, bi, straight, married, playboy, author or garbage collector. Do what provides you with fulfillment. Life goes by blindingly fast and it's pace only hastens with the years you gain. There must be nothing so sad as the person who's built a life only to awake one day and discover that what they have put so much effort and sacrifice into building is, indeed, nothing they ever wanted.Let me also say this, as a right down the middle bi guy. Take the initiative to experiment with your sexuality now. If I remember right, your in college. There will never be a better time to explore who you are and find out in what medium your most comfortable.Don't fall victim to the preconceived notion that many would when told to experiment. Experimentation does not equated to promiscuity. Experimentation does not mean a quick anonymous BJ behind the bar or a hook-up with a veritable stranger. Experimentation means getting away form the regular circle who may stifle you. Experimenting mean developing new relationships with people who may bring out new and liberating qualities with you. Experimentation mean making a new friend that may one day lead to a kiss. All in all, experimentation means finding out who you are and who you are most comfortable being.Lastly, let me tell you, as a married bi man, that my greatest regret is that I never took the time to explore my sexuality when I had the chance. I let fear of what everyone would think dictate who I was. I will always regret that, and wonder what might have been, and what might I have missed. Understand, I mean this to take nothing away from my wife. I love her dearly, without limits. She has never failed to turn me on, I feel fulfilled with her, and thinking of her always brings a smile to my face. But, as I'm committed to her now, I'll never know what it's like to kiss a guy, and that, I regret.