Why don't girls ever ask guys out?

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I've noticed in my school, none of the girls ask he guys out only vise-versa, is there a reason 4 this?an also, this girl is 15, i want to tell her the shes a very beautiful girl should i say girl/woman/lady/chick/gal........

Just say your beautiful, you dont have to leave the girl part on. And, I have never asked a guy out cause i dont really make an effort to find a relationship they just kind of happen.

oh yeah.... i just say ur beautiful..simple.......off topic but i just noticed ur star in ur pic. changes colors:)

Well ur school seems to be very traditional. Guys asks the girl out, thats the way it goes. Thats shocking because in todays society ive notice the opposite. But dont be shy with her, go up to her and talk to her. Just remember, if she turns you down then its her loss. There are a million other girls ou t there for u

ive never asked a guy out..

in some soceities girls never ask guys out or make the first move. this is the case with most girls in australia at least. they will sometimes wait months with a guy just praying he will make a move because they refuse to make the first move. some girls think that they will be considered slutty to make the first move, or it will be humilating to the guy for the girl to make the first move..and don't think you'll get in with a girl by telling her she's beautiful. it will give her a big head. complimenting a girl isn't the best way to make a girl like you... try being funny and playful around her, act is if you are the one that deserves the compliments from her , -but don't get cocky and nieve.

> in some soceities girls never ask guys out

That's too bad. It could turn a near-zero chance of a date into a reasonable possibility. Girls will sometimes tell (or hint to) a mutual friend to tell the guy of interest that she's interested.

The short answer is that they dont need to!Girls get so much attention from confident guys asking them that why do they need to bother with some weenie whos to afraid to talk to her?There are exceptions to the rule but they are not the norm. They dont need to be.

I think there are a lot of exceptions to the rule. Guys can't always read women, and often just assume that the woman is not interested, even if she is. Also, you may be super-outgoing, but a lot of guys aren't.It reminds me of when my friend and I visited his wife at work. Someone else she worked with was interested in me, and it would never even have crossed my mind to have asked her out. It wasn't an issue of being shy. Anyway, I got her number from the wife, and we went out, and it was good.There were other times I was too dense to figure it out, and the girls dropped pretty strong hints. That made things take longer than they needed to. They should have just spoken up.I think people have sexist attitudes about girls asking boys out.

Thats not true, i accidently turned down a really cute guy cause i didnt know he was hitting on me till i got out to my car. i felt like an idiot.

At Starbucks? That's where people hook up nowadays. The Starbucks near me is like Cheers.

Like I said, there is exceptions.I think if women were more adept at it there would be more known exceptions. Alot of them simply dont ask men out in a way that is plain enough for our dumb asses to understand its an invite.If your a woman asking out a guy,dont piss around, come out and say it. dont assume we will get the hints because we wont.

If your a woman asking out a guy,dont piss around, come out and say it. dont assume we will get the hints because we wont.Yup, or it might take a frustratingly long time.How many times have I heard, "He's so cute!" Jeez, he might think you are too, if he knew you existed. Go talk to him.

lmao i was thinking but when i got out to my car i tried to run back inside but he was gone i felt soooooooooooo dumb cause it was so incredibly obvious.

my eX asked me... then i tried to break up with her and she talked me out of it. she pissed me off and i dumped her.

In western society it is rare for a women to ask a man out, it goes back to caveman times, its animal instinct, the male impresses the female so he can screw her, have babies then go off and die somewhere.

Society has changed but our instincts have not, over the ages and in changes in how courting occurs the key factor that men do all the work has stayed intact.

There are exceptions. Some areas there are unusually high female to male ratios with men having so much to choose from the women need to do some work. Think Sex and the City.

Telling a woman shes beautiful is a rubbish thing to say, think about it. If she is beautiful shes probably heard it before so just because you pointed out the obvious she isnt gonna like you, more feel sorry for you.

Confidence is the key...i've run on as ever,,, you get the idea!

I'm a woman who prefers to be the agressor... it's like... when I'm not in a relationship I'm "on the prowl". I am usually not interested in the men (/or boys -whichever if fitting!) who come on to me... I don't know exactly what it is. Maybe a control issue. Though! I think men like this... because, it makes the whole deal much easier on them. & the situation can be quite fun!! The hottest seduction-via-female I've ever seen was Mimi-Roger in the film production of RENT. !! whew!Anyway... if you want to (subtely) let a lady know you're interested in her you could start of with "hello"... what type of person is she? Introvert or extrovert? If she's quiet & shy you'll want to take it easy... it's much easier to communicate with an outgoing person because of course they are apt to be more open and talkative. If you've already spent time talking with the gal I suggest visiting a local floral shop and selecting a flower which reflects her personality/beauty. You could tell her why you chose it/bought it. Or you could just tell her you think she ought to have a flower. Just be honest. I've never met a woman who wouldn't highly appreciate a flower!Good luck!

you know wut i hate? girls that are really friendly and you can't tell whether she's into you or just being friendly. It's really hard to tell and it confuzzles me

so give her a flower you'll find out soon after!

I've had a few girls ask me out. No big deal.I like asking a lot of questions and will find out if I'm in the dating ladder or friends ladder that way.