hi, one prob i have is flirting with girls, theres this girl i really like. i have mastered talking to her and not becoming nervous/embarassing, but i can never think of anything to say. And when a girl says something to me and theres an opportunity to flirt, i do it wrong,e.g a conversation yesterday(im holding a lynx clickometer)me(to girl): hey, gimme a smile, i wanna get 50 by the end of the lesson ( keep in mind i know this girl previously )girl: (smiles, and i click) haha, how many do you click if you shag (have sex with) me?now at this point i drop the ball and make some stupid, cheesy joke. i know this isnt serious flirting, and its just harmless flirting, but i could have been a lot funnier than i was, and a lot less corny. help?
Trouble with flirting
I dont belive there is anything anyone can say to you to help.you have to be relaxed so your brain can think, you have to be confident or you do not dare to say the shit your brain thinks of to say. I know of no way to help with that.I always got by on flirting, I would walk up to a girl and open my mouth and let what ever horse shit my brain came up with spill out, I never knew before I opened my mouth what was going ot come out. I have no idea how to tel you to be able to do that.Maybe just do it more and suck at it, consider it practice?flirting nd being funny is not something that can be taught, epsecially over the net. its not jsut about what you say its also about how you say it and what face you pull saying it, where the eyebrows are and the position of hte eye lid. someimtes flirting is nofthing more then a facial expression timed with a glance.sorry man, I got nothing that can help and I dount anyone else will either.fhead to a strange place where noone knows you so it wont matter and flirt with every girl you see, talk to em all, blow em a kiss and shoot thema wink and a nod or three. use em for practice, then go home and apply it to the girls you know and have an interest in.f
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well you don't have to flirt with a girl for her to like you, you can just be nice to her. I've never really flirted with a girl, mainly cause i don't talk to girls that mush and odn't really know how to. But just be ur self and don't be afraid to show how u really feel and act- like, if you think of something to do, just do it.
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We always realise after some encounter that we could have done much better. Someone in a very old book talks of "carriage-wit" - the perfect riposte you think of in the carriage on the way home. We can't be perfect, but I think you're doing very well indeed.