Advice on the first time?

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i feelike a retard asking this but then again how would i kno. how do i kno what is the right hole?

well, its her vagina, its a long slit like hole, if you need some reference have a look at the "female genitalia" section, it gives a good discription.what i ment by get it in the right hole was not in the ass lol maybe thats where i confused you.just out of curiosity how old are you?

i told u i am a retard! lol jk. 15 about to be 16. my dick size is about 6.5-7 in long hard and 5 in girth. is that good size or bad? that is what i thought u meant but i wanted to make sure.

lol, wanting to make sure isnt retarded :grin:
and yep i think thats about an average size for your age, just be careful :wink: and make sure you both want to do it and have fun.
oh and just a word of warning if its her first time she might find it painful, which is compleatly normal.

Make sure you have plenty of condoms, stored somewhere cool and not past the use-by date. (Wallets are bad places for condoms because they get too warm.) Practice putting them on long before you expect to need them.

Don't just stick it in, but make sure you've had lots of foreplay, and she really wants it. Make sure she is relaxed.

Don't expect it to be like a porn movie, or even very good. The first time things usually go wrong - expect that.

Your size is fine - bigger than average but still will fit a regular condom.

ummmm use a condom get it in the right hole go slowly and then just let what ever feel natural take over.... dont expect too much and you wont be let down.

ok thanks alot! so is there diffrent advice for like if she is not a virgin? cause she is not.

ummmmm i know most of the girls i know like it slow at the begining then slowly worked up to a faster pace.... but dont go in to ramming the shit out of her....unless she starts saying something to that effect... and pay attention to her sounds she making that can give you a clue on how good it is feeling to her.... other than that i cant really think of anything else other than when you feel yourself start to climax slow way down if you want to last longer b4 u spooge.... mainly, listen to her. if she says stop then, well you know....stop.

i hear using two condoms at once keeps you from coming fast which will stop you from being lame at it....although if you dont come is that technically losing your virginity?

Having sex period is losing your virginity, whether you orgasm or not.Now some people say oral sex is not losing your virginity as other people say it is. It's all an opinion on that. My opinion is you don't lose your virginity until you have intercourse.