NO SYMPATHY FOR TEEN MOTHERS

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I agree, It isn't only people letting you raise the child, but its ur responsibility since u chose to have sex and you new the what could happen from that decision. I think teen mothers should raise there children if they can give the child the necessities and all the love in the world.

why she is "denying" the fact that she "is" a whore:she most likely has different opinions on what it takes to be a whore, and as far as she is concerned she isn’t one.my opinion on who is and who isn’t a whore is if they think of sex as a sacred thing, and that you should only have sex with one guy or whatever, and they are promiscuous any way, then I would consider them a whore. If they think of sex as just something fun, and they treat it as such, that’s not whoreish, that’s just having fun... its all in the eye of the beholder as they say.

I'm not taking sides with anyone but myself, but why would you blame your parents for not guiding you? you were clearly in a really strict school, and are you implying that NO ONE there told you about what could happen if you had sex? come on now, that's unbelieveable.

Well my board has been REVIVED!!! Well I'm sillygirl84...but I forgot my password...so now I'm silligirl84!! (Ah notice the diffrence...) Anywho, mz_nazty. obviously everyone does care...or they wouldn't be responding to my POSTS!!!! You cared enough to write, right?

no i didn't you stuipd little witch the only reason i wrote in here is coz you don't know what the hell your talkin about you have no idea what it like and the only reason other ppl wrote in here was to tell you how wrong you are. so what i was preg and 15 and now have two kids i love it, it was the best thing that every happened to me i like most ppl don't give a crap about what you think and most of the teen mothers out there aren't even lookin for you sympathy nor do they want it!!!!!!! SO GROW UP AND TAKE A LOOK AROUND WE DONT' CARE

you really shouldnt be talking about something you have no experience with

No to come of as the devils advocate, but neither do you!

think so eh

0910, you have already proven my point. If you have been reading carefully, you will see that I dont have sympathy for young dumb broads who open thier legs at 13,14 & 15, get pregnant and then wanna blame everyone else but themselves. I know people who have had worst lives then you, and then didnt get pregnant, now what is your real excuse???

I have no real problem with teen pregnancy if the mother(hopefully the father too) take reponceiblilty for it.

It's a free country and I can talk about anything even if you dont think I had experience. Im glad I never directly had this happen to me. I had better things to do with my time...

You said that it has happened indirectly to you in regards to your sister. It seems that a lot of your dislike for teen mothers stems from your sisters abortion at a young age. Because of what happened in your family with your parents almost splitting, you've grown to have a lot of hatred. If young people choose to have sex, so be it. You can't stop them, no one can. The more people fight back and tell them no, the more likely they will to lash out and do the exact opposite. If they do happen to get pregnant even with protection (or not) and they are willing to take on the responsibility of raising the child I commend them. They are choosing their path and it is an obvious rough one. The only time I get mad about teens and pregnancy is when they think that it won't be hard. I know an 18 year old that is pregnant and she thinks she'll work until the baby is born, have it, still live at home and after a few weeks go back to work and get a babysitter. She is in for a very big reality check on that one. It isn't going to be all peaches and cream.

I was commenting on the fact that I was never pregnant as a teen, and I do support mothers who become selfless, take care of their children & responsibilites. I'm not upset that teens are out there having sex, no one can stop them from doing that. But if they cant protect themselves, and then get upset about being pregnant, I have no sympathy.

"i don't have sympathy for young dumb broads who open thier legs at 13, 14 and 15"i'm not upset the teens are out there having sex"pick one you little cow what one is it. there is nothing wrong with them having sex and what you say isn't goin to stop them. its what they want to do so let them and if they do get preg its there problem not yours

That "you little cow" was unnecessary and unhelpful, mz_nasty.

You know mz_"nazty", you are REALLY starting to get on my nerves...You are angry with me for expressing my opinion because it doesnt agree w/ yours and you are trying DESPERATELY to find contradictions in my postings to make yourself feel better and have people sympathize w/ you....and youre not doing a good job of it...I admire how you copy and pasted segments of my posts to use against me...

If you recall, I said:

"I dont have sympathy for young dumb broads who open thier legs at 13,14 & 15, GET PREGNANT & THEN WANNA BLAME EVERYONE BUT THEMSELVES"
(It's FUNNY how you left that last part out...)

"i'm not upset the teens are out there having sex"

My topics is not called "NO SYMPATHY FOR TEEN SEX"
That is not the issue at hand, and you know it, sweetie. Since you read every word I write, you would see in previous postings, that I could care less about teen sex. It is about teens who want to be grown and have sex, but dont want to take responsiblity for their actions ( if they get pregnant).

NOW, Im tired of arguing w/ you becuase you are not going to win this debate...

first don't ever call me sweetie!!!!!and second your saying thing as if your talkin about all teens when in fact it is only a few teens your talkin about. i'm not shitty coz you expressing your opinion i'm shitty coz you think that i want your sympathy when i don't i don't need it. i'm shitty coz you think teen mothers don't take responsiblity for their actions they and most of them do. i got preg at 15 and had not one but 2 kids it was twice as hard for me living alone with no one to help me. but still to this day i wouldn't change my life i love having my 2 girls and even though it was hard i still took responsiblity for my actions. i think your problem is that you weren't expressng your opinion but you were and maybe still are upset with your family and you feel you need to take it out on everyone who has or had been a teen mother.

To be perfectly honest, no one is going to "win" this debate.So, let's all agree to disagree. Shake hands, put name calling aside, and move on from this issue.The braver person is the one who can refuse revenge.

Testosterone fight in one forum… cat fight in this… the boards starting to get amusing again Play nice people or it will be warning time again.

You're right, this is a discussion board, so of course there will be differences of opinions...but all i have been doing is reinerating my opinions. Mz_Nazty is terribly offended because she must think she falls in this catagory nad she wants me to feel bad for saying these things...I don't and I won't! Now I hope we can all get back to an intelligent thought-provoking discussion.