Who has it harder

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who do you think has it harder guys or girls?

females

harder about what

i would LOVE to know the point of this thread!please post it

Girls

just in life

I would say girls, but not in my case... Im always giving people my time to help, being as polite as I can, and trying to make any girl I meet happy, and make what theyre doing easier (hold the door open, help them study, help with friend's problems, etc.)... But in any other way, girls definately have it harder.

girls.standards they are held to/annoying things they have to do:(this may sound like i'm generalizing, but society drums these things into girls from a very early age, and regardless if an individual guy feels they are important, this is still the prevailing message that girls get.)standards:skinnybig breastsno hipsflat bellyimpossibly prettyperfect hairgreat, hot lover (although this backfires since if she does have/enjoy sex, she is "a whore".)annoying things:working to have perfect hairworking to be thin and trim if not skinny. makeup (no, i don't mind putting it on, but sometimes i just don't feel like it, yet i still do because i think i look bad without it.)shaving sorry - shaving your face is a lot easier than shaving your legs!wearing really fucking uncomfortable shoesditto on the clotheswearing both of the above to attract guys or look cool, but being considered slutty for doing soin general seeing impossible women everywhere, in videos, commercials and print ads, that give the message that this is the norm and if you don't look like this you simply don't measure up. (why do you think so many girls have anorexia, bulimia, get plastic surgery before they're 20, etc?)...and if you DO happen to look like that, being viewed as someone to be fucked instead of someone in consideration for a multi-level relationship.feeling the pressure to repress their needs/opinions/emotions to cater to the guyif you are a woman and want to reject all these things, be yourself and be self-supporting, you are considered a "threat" to men. not to mention you usually are not paid as much to do the same job.i could go on! i know there are huge pressures on guys too, but i honestly believe that women have it much harder.

Maggie, I'll agree with you that girls have it harder and most of what you said. HOWEVER, seeing as how I'm a bodybuilder I've shaved my legs. Shaving my legs was MUCH easier & MUCH more comfortable than shaving my face. Sure it took a lil more time, but shaving legs is a snap. So until you've had to shave your face, you might wanna retract that statement :wink:

ok.have you ever shaved a pussy?touche'

What about a you-know-what? touchex2

Yes, and I thought it was great!

I would have to disagree with some things: Standards: women: skinny; male: fit; women: big breasts; male: big penis; women: flat belly; men: ditto; women: pretty; men: str8 out of an abercrombie and fitch commercial; women: sex - whore; men: sex - playa;women: perfect hair; men: groomed nicely;women: makeup - not a neccessity, u said u look bad without it...that's ur opinion about urself...some men don't like makeup on their females; men: not makeup, but smelling nicely with cologne;women: shaving ur legs - that's a new world thing; men: shave cuz shit bothers me when i don't shave, itches the hell outta my face;women: shoes - u don't have to wear them, u choose to; men: sneakers are fucking 150.00, but some CHOOSE to pay it. women: trying to attract guys? BE URSELF; men: ARE ALWAYS TRYING TO APPEAL TO FEMALES, SO U DON'T HAVE IT ANY HARDER THEN WE DO. I'm done...but looks to me that things are pretty even.

and the shoes..i meant the fucking uncomfortable ones...not talking about goin barefoot.

you ever shaved your balls?I was just replying to the shaving legs vs. face part as I've done both. Legs are a snap to shave. Dont have a pussy, so I couldnt compare there, lol. One thing I will give to y'all is shaving your armpits are a beyatch!

not really

If it's about life than it depends. I know a boy who went through life getting hit by his parents and alot of other stuff, but I know a girl who has great parents and had no problems. So it all depends on their life.

i don;t think that is wut he meant. i think it's more of a ..ummmm... erctions vs PMS type thing or somthing like that.

In that case, guys have it harder. :smirk:

pfft, relatively equal in the way everyone has broken it down so far. but women definitely have it harder. how many women you know end up raping men? every woman ends up getting heckled at some point in their life by asshattive males, etc, etc, etc. women have it worse because men try and procreate with anything female.