Well I also agree that both sexes have it about the same. For those who believe in the bible & it's teachings - it says in there that God burdened women by making them go through child-birth & cursed the man to have to work for the rest of his life. I'm not syaing women dont work, but I have yet to see a woman work hard physical labor. So unless you're a female out there workin 60+ hour weeks & working your ass off every hour, I dont wanna hear how childbirth alone makes femals have a harder life or "has it harder".Like many have said, as a whole neither sex really has it harder. I'm sure we could all pick out individuals who have it harder than the rest of us though, so let's just leave it at that & be thankful .
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Who has it harder
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First off, women DONT have a harder time getting hired. In fact, for some government jobs you get so many "free points" just for being a female. Same as a minority. SO sexpot, a white man would start at 0. A black female might get 5 points for being a minority & 10 points for being female, so her starting points would be 15. If a passing grade is 61, a black woman would be 15 points closer than a white male. Not all jobs go by that scale, but I know a lot of government jobs do (like postal service).About the guy not taking care of his kids. That's just as much the woman's fault as it is the man's. She should have got to know her man before opening her legs. Another thing, there are laws on that. If the man is paying child support then he has a right to see his kids. Now if the woman has full custody & the man doesnt pay support, then he cant demand to see his kids. If a woman chose not to pursue child support & complains about not having a man's help then thats HER fault.You have harder because men call you bitches & hoes? Give me a break. I could list all kinda names women call men.
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I simply brought race to prove a point. The government gives certain points for being a woman, or a minority, or other stuff like that. SO if you are black, or asian, or mexican, or whatever & a woman you would have a big lead on a white man and even a small lead on a minority male.If I was the employer it would definately be the female. I assume we're talking about a office job. Much rather look at a female than a male all day. The employer would hire who he thought was best for the job. Women arent being discriminated against.
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He sounds like he would make a bona fide boss... Eh? Eh?
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Girls, they are able to get through the door with sex appeal usally.
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ok let me get this straight, I'm sexist if I hire a female. I'm also sexist if I hire a male over a female. LOL, this makes a lot of since. It evens furthers my point how certain rights' group will turn everything around to "get to their point." Liberal Feminist - more like bias critic, lol
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In reply to:some do not experience a significant amount of pain...read. then reply..thanks That statement is so full of shit. I'll venture to say that all vaginal births births involve significant pain. Being drugged up and numbed doesn't count.
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whatever, we both know women dont have a harder time getting jobs than men do. if a woman is better qualified then she will get the job. If not, the man will get the job.Give you a break? Maybe when you quit posting stupid, one-sided lies then I will.
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You've got to remember, there's all kinds of employers out there. There's many who are racist, sexist (goes either way), and there's many who will look at who can get the job done the best and most efficiently. You guys both need some demographic charts if you really want to prove your points about this.
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good point, only difference is mine arent lies
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I agree, RobBob. This is an impossible discussion because there are too many variables.
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Sdp, are you able to speak for every woman in the world? NO...so...get over it.
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No1..you have yet to give one valid point as to why women have it harder...because every point you have can apply to men as well...maybe if you tried to stop saying every male's point of view on this matter, is either sexist, stupid, or bullshit...and looked up some valid points..you might actually "win" this arguement, and we could move on.
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go to the foreskin post and write that..ok? and u make it sound like i actually care what Sdp says to me...and no..u haven't made any points...ohh child birth this and child birth that..and oh now you're sexist for looking at women...fucking hell...those aren't points at all. and if you're saying that i'm an idiot for not reading up on foreskin...then i guess i, and everyone else who hasn't read up on a question before posting is an idiot too...hear that fellow posters? she thinks your all idiots...simply for having a question.
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Any procedure has fatalities.
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You guys have gotten way too argumentive over this. Now you're arguing about sexism, validity of each other's arguments, who's right and who's wrong (the world is full of contrasting opinions... it's true) and it's not a discussion anymore. It's become, for the most part, a one on one brawl between no1 and powerlifter.
Here's an interesting question to break the hate: monkeys....
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you HAVE been proven wrong by me! The post where you gave 3 reasons why women have it harder I replied to it & proved everyone of them wrong & you didnt even try to argue that matter.
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it's not just that. she's regarded most of my views as stupid and wreckless. as if i'm just doing it to piss her off. it seems i can't have an opinion without the term "bullshit" coming out. I have heard of lower pain births, and i don't think women have it harder. i said that things were about even, but her and Sdp, mainly her said that my views were bullshit. if someone viewed the way you think as bullshit...unless it's completely proposterous, would you angry?
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Yeah but i dont think you should really judge what childbirth is like until you have some clue as to what it might feel like.. This is really kinda totally different but imagine pushing out a .. Watermelon out of your ass.. (that sounds really fucked)But out of every person ive known.. my friends.. my aunts my cousins... theyve all told me to wait a long long time because it hurts like HELL
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I'm definately not arguing child birth being painful, as I'm quite sure it is. Like I said earlier, for the bible believers, God's revenge for Adam betraying him & Eve tempting Adam was to make labor painful for women & cause men to have to work for the rest of their lives. There will be exceptions, but the majority of married women do NOT have jobs, and they raise the children (which is a job in itself). I think a man putting in 60 hour weeks of manuel labor pouring blood, sweat, and tears into it more than makes up for or "evens the score" of women having 3-4 child births.