i recently started hooking up with this guy ive been friends with. i dont think he eats out girls, but i want him to do it to me. i wanna see what its like. i feel weird just asking him, and ill feel weirder if i do and he says no. is there any other way i can hint at it to let him try?
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Hmmm...
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Just say something like can you do something for me..........try something like that.
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You can hint hint and hint more. Say something like "I've never had a guy go down on me but I think I'd like it." If there is no progress then you'll just have to ask. I had a friend that wouldn't eat out his girlfriend and they've been together for over 3 years. A few months ago he finally did. So it just goes to show some guys take a while.
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Is it safe to assume you've already given him head? If so, he's being pretty selfish not to return the favor and you might want to reassess the relationship.If you haven't aleady given him head, you might initiate things that way. Tell how how you really would like to suck him off. I'm sure he'll go for it. Make sure you read up on techniques first, though, if you haven't already done it. Giving him an awsome experience will most certainly smoothe the way if you then ask him to reciprocate.
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My guy has told me that he's eaten out past girlfriends, and I get a big hint that he doesn't enjoy it enough to give me the pleasure. It's weird though, we just had a discussion about how I have no problems putting my lips to his nether regions yet he has qualms about mine when there really should be no difference. I think that logic partially convinced him, so I'll see if he surprises me one day.And if not, I am perfectly cool with him not doing it. I'm one of those who likes to give more than receive anyway, so it's not a big loss. I hope, that if your boyfriend rejects the idea, that you'll accept his limits. Who knows, he may come around with time when other things get boring.
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yea ive already given him head. the first time i did it he sort of hinted at it, we were kissing and he began trace my lips with his finger and pop it in and out, i kind of got the hint he wanted a blowjob, so i did it. but this was after he had already fingered me. soo, the next time we hooked up, during him fingering me, i decided to see if his technique worked, i kissed him and used my tongue alot, in a sensual way. but no, he didnt get the hint, so i just let it slide. i dont know how else to hint, is he just not getting it, or does he really not want to ?
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lol if i was making out with a chick and she used her tongue alot... i would not pick up on the hint that it meant "go down on me"you have to be blunt with some guys
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haha ohh, bad hint i guess then lol
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Most guys that i have been with love going down so that is kind of an odd thing to read....but if you want him to go down on you, you should me more direct...Most guys are thick headed and do not even take the best of hints. They need to be told straight out what you want and how you want them to do it. Don't be ashamed to ask for what you want, you want it ask, the worst they can say is no - and I don't know about you but I don't want to be with any man who has qualms about satisfying me orally or any other way.Hope this helps.
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Does he not kiss you up and down your body? Could you not guide him using your hands while he's kissing you up and down? Otherwise ask him, it's not as though you wouldn't do it for him. I'm surprised he hasn't pounced you and started doing it of his own accord!
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no, come to think of it, he doesnt kiss me up and down my body at all....
