Confused?

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this is kinda like one of the previous post...I have always love sex with females. but find its more exciting to masterbate to gay porn and even find myself wanting to have gay sex and experiment wth guys. but when the chance arrived I hated it and backed out at the last moment. I'm your average guy next door with an average girlfriend. I'm not at all flamboyant nor do I seem to have any chance to be gay. I love girls and sex but something about guys having sex with each other turn me on and something about me having sex with another guy turns me off.does anyone out there understand what I'm feeling? is there some thing wrong with me?

Hey, don't worry about it. I'm the same way. I mean I enjoy sex with males and could never picture me touching a female in that way because I'm completely hetero, yet I do get turned on when watching lesbian porn. Females are attractive, and you might think males are attractive, but you're not so attracted to them you feel comfortable doing things with them.

i got it too fami love girls, but im curious about dickits not the man or w.e, i think its just the dickhow did you get a position that you coulda experimented?..lol

was partying with a few friends and after everyone left. one guy who we had all just met a few weeks earlier, ask to sleep on my couch for the night. I passed out in my recliner and awoke to him unzipping my pants....I continued to act passed out and let him do his thing but just as he started to blow me I couldn't go on so I acted like I woke up and he jump across the living room to the couch and acted passed out....I just got up and asked him if he like it and went to my room. he gave no reply and a bit later I heard him leave. I just love the softness of a womans touch and softness of their body. men are to dirty hairy and to firm for me and the soft sensitive guys are to flamboyant for me..... I don't know there is just no way I could do anything with another guy! but I could watch!

i had that too for a while, but then i decided i have to make a choice, this flipping back and forth was starting to get my into trouble. and, due to religious convictions, i chose to go with the idea of straight. i honestly think though that every person has a bit of both straightness (for lack of better word) and gayness. i think how they play out in life is up to that person enviroment and also their wants.
give it time, and as always, ask yourself, are you attracted to dicks emotionally or physically. if your not attrackted to them physically, i dont think you have much of an emotional gay side.
good luck

Do you think you'd enjoy a pre op transexual? No body hair, big tits and looking like a woman for the most part except for having a cock.

SHIT , I'd like that !!!

Dude, nothing to be confused about, you're gay.

God I fucking hate you Kat_Man. Why do you accuse everyone of being gay?!?!?! Some people might just get aroused by that doesn't necessarily mean they want or need or wanna do it! Maybe you're the gay one thats why you go accusing people. You get on my nerve...god how immature are you. I've read some post you made and sometimes I think you should just shut up.

in response to FRONTANDBACK: a guys body is just too firm and muscular for me....and theres something about female hips and thighs that i like!

Thank you.

Holy shit kat..lol...scroll down read nice posts like hey don't worry bout it...then get to yours..."nothing to be confused about...you're gay" LOL...sorry y'all just thought that was funny.

I think Kat_Man is either gay and does not want to admit it or he is a homophobe or maybe both or maybe something else...Even thought the either/or statement is a logical fallacy.

There have been studies to show that most homophobes are that way because they themselves are confused with their own sexuality.For instance, Prof. Henry E. Adams of the University of Georgia conducted a study on males. He separated his sample into two groups, homophobes and non-homophobes. Using a device that measures sexual arousal, called a penile plethysmograph, he recorded the sample's reaction to three types of porn: straight, gay-male and lesbian. Prof Adams discovered that 80% of the homophobic guys were either moderately or strongly turned on by the gay film, compared with only 34% of the non-homophobes. He also found that the homophobes were significantly less aroused by the straight video than their gay-friendly counterparts.Adam's conclusion was that male homophobia is strongly related to an inability to cope with "homosexual" impulses.Now, I'm not calling anyone here a homophobe...I'm just saying that sexuality is a very complex thing...perhaps instead of obsessing over everyone else's sexuality and confidently stating whether someone on this board is gay or not, a little someone should explore his own surpressed sexual curiosity...

I tried to support your study. BUt never found a study like that? Are you lying...

you're confused? try this one. I am a guy and KNOW that I'm attracted to to guys over girls. The thing is though I can't get off FROM another guy, whether from getting head or topping them. It feels good and everything but just USUALLY doesn't get me off. So when I look to hookup with a guy I look for guys just looking to get some anonymous head and call it a day without worrying about having to reciprocate. I don't even like for guys to jerk me off, although I usually can get off from them doing that faster then I would from them blowing me or me fucking them. Another thing that kinda confuses is my view on porn. Being so into cock you'd probably think that I live on gay porn as opposed to str8 but actually it's the opposite. Besides a few exceptions I totally PREFER str8 porn over gay, although gay porn seems to have the hotter guys. I don't get it but while I really get into WATCHING str8 sex I really don't have any desire to participate in it as anything more than a spectator. The only favorable hetero sex I've ever engaged in was when I got blown by a chick while I was blowing another guy(with ANOTHER chick watching on the sidelines...whole other story) but that was a one time thing and I've never really thought about doing anything like that again..well, except me eatin the dick. So basically my problem is that I like GIVING pleasure to other guys, but don't like receiving pleasure from THEM. WTF? Oh yeah, and recently I've been kinda getting into the scenes in str8 porn where the guy is going down on the girl and I think I do have a SLIGHT curiousity about what it'd be like. Eating out a chick I mean. Ok gimme some feedback...AM I a total head case?

Uhhh.. Kinda I guess.

In reply to:I tried to support your study. BUt never found a study like that? Are you lying... How about, "I tried to support your study, but I never found a study like that. Could you point me to one?" Can't we just get along?There is a study that showed that a surprisingly large percentage of a cross section of men are aroused (as measured by the penile plethysmograph) by things you might find distateful, like child porn. This info is from a long article in the New York Times a couple of weeks ago.

In terms of what you do, thedutch, I presume you would be classified as a gay bottom (opposite of top), which isn't at all uncommon. The hetero porn in preference to gay is a twist I haven't heard of before, but why beat yourself up over it? You're yourself, and there's nothing wrong with that.

thanks...appreciate your thoughts on it.