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Fully agree. Heck, most aren't even ready at 18, or later. The fact is, those who think they are ready are almost never seriously considering the possibility of pregnancy and the consequences thereof. Show me a 13 years old guy who got a 13 years old girl pregnant and felt perfectly fine in taking his responsability as a father at that age, and I'll be very impressed indeed.

Amanda: 'No 13 year old is emotionally ready 'trust me- i am (i am 14)

Ok so how do you plan on raising a child by yourself?

Does your newspaper bicycle route pay the medical bills, the baby food, the clothes, the crib, the diapers, the carseat, the forumla, etc.? Who pays for the babysitter while you're at school? How are you going to get the baby to the doctor's...afterall at 14 you don't have your license.

Trust him.

I'll trust him if he can answer all those questions without using the word, mom, dad, my gf's mom, dad, or any other family member. There's no way in hell a 14 year old can raise a child by themselves.

Just trust him. He's ready... smirk

well someone should of told the us durning middle school when i was there, i'm not making this up. the singing group at are middle school called KFT(Kids from Taft) i wasn't on the bus, but this is what i heard a group of them got borad and started to have sex or something i'm not sure and they where all doing but from what people where saying they had sex. This is the Micheal Jackson part the teacher the TEACHER kept the tape on what happened on the bus. And then a year later we find out he was a Sex Offender. like i said i didn't make this up,even though it sounds like it.

These stories tend to get more colourful as they are retold. I bet that what really happened on the bus was pretty tame.

I guess you realized that you can't do it huh?

Amanda, the answer is: I know everything about safe sex and NOT getting someone pregnant, so i do not have to worry about that stuff. (its hard for someone at ANY age to get someone knocked up- I know a guy in his 20's in that situation where he cant afford the twins hes about to have-And, other person that was talking about me:So what if i wanted to be sure about oral sex? That has nothing to do with pregnancy

In reply to:its hard for someone at ANY age to get someone knocked up Care to expand upon this statement?

i think hes saying that at any age, it can be hard for people to look after their kids. As they might not have the money or the time for them, even if they're at an older age.

Eww! Thats wrong! I've WANTED sex at 14, sometimes so bad it hurts, but i've never actually done it. I always remeber what could happen and calm down about it.And about your sister, don't touch her. Who knows what harm you could do to her mind. Lay off the sex and stuff for a while, k? Live life as a normal kidNo offense, but anyone who has sex at 11 needs serious help.

If I recall correctly you said you would be ready for a child at 14.

READ WHAT I TYPE:YOU. ARE. NOT. READY. FOR. SEX.Seriously, how do you think you could cope with finding out you were pregnant? Imagine it: you wait a month, two months, nothing's there, no blood, no period, nada. You realize you're pregnant. You have to tell your parents; there's no getting around that. You either a) get an abortion, or b) give birth and keep the child or c) give birth and give it up for adoption. Ask yourself: Can I stand the emotional strain of any of these options? If I get an abortion, can I stand to think that I have killed a baby because I was young and stupid and needed a quick way out? Can I be able to withstand the difficulties of pregnancy? What about the father; will he be there for me when I need him? If I decide adoption, will I be able to let go of my child and give it to its adoptive parents? If I keep the baby, can I be able to wake up and feed it, take care of its constant needs, and still stay in school? What will I do when I'm at school and I'm pregnant? What will the kids say?Honey, if you answer any of those questions with any kind of trepidation, you aren't ready for sex. An don't be so naive and think, oh, I won't get pregnant, nobody ever gets pregnant at my age... Because that's a bunch of bull-log-na. (Bologna, get it? hee hee... )And as for your sister? You can masterbate in the bathroom. If she asks about it, just tell her the truth: you are doing something private in which she may not take a part. Do not teach her anything about masterbating. I personally think that it is essential for one to learn their own body by themselves, so they can enjoy the experience while not having some person hawking over them (within reason, you could be a clothes-on "guide", to whom she could ask questions about herself so she knows what things are called, etc, but you do not demonstrate anything).

And you are responding to who?

Uh. Somehow I don't think it was you even though that's what it says.

Quoted for truth. Masturbation should be a personal thing at that age. Too many kids these days see sex as a purely mechanical thing bereft of emotions. It leads to the kind of aberration I heard on the radio once, where a 23 year old was calling a sexologist because he was completely tired of sex because he'd already tried everything. You could feel that sex was never an emotional thing for him.