A turn of events

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Then I think you should be the guy to show her that some guys can be trusted...Just show her that your honest...and a great guy, I'm sure you have, but renforce it, let her know what you think of her, tell her how much you care. There probably sin't much more then that that you can actually do, I wish you the best of luck in this. I hope everything comes out fine.

You love each other but yet you've only met in the last week? I just think people set themselves up for this stuff.

Nice to see your support for me as always Amanda....

don't let yourself fall so hard for someone in such a short amount of time

Well its difficult not to when that one person offers you the support you've always dreamed of, whilst having the exact attitude and approach that you've always wanted, whislt also being visually appealing and sharing identical interests.This is totally different to the L situation. She caused me pain, and never really liked me. This new girl, however, returns to me what I give to her, and so it's magnified many many times.I agree that I shouldn't have gotten so far in, but I couldn't help it. When someone is so close to your idea of perfection, everything else goes out the window.

sometimes you can't help but fall for someone so abruptly.

I think you should wait around and act as her friend right now. Make sure she has the space she wants, anything to make her comfortable.

It's amazing how many tears the human body can produce over time...

If you have to, it'll keep producing them, just please, don't kill yourself...this hurts yes, but it shouldn't bring death

I don't think you've lost anything yet.

It's just become on hold, she'll come back, she says she will

I apologise for this post in advance. It's just a big vent of feelings that I need to do.Well today managed to pass fairly easily, but now it's passed into another day I'm feeling bad again.I miss her so much, and it's such torture to have to stop myself from talking to her.Again, I feel like I want to die because it hurts so much.I keep imagining in my head the phone call I'd get from her and her telling me that we couldn't go on. But after that I can't think any further because I've felt those feelings before and I don't want to feel them again...I have so many feelings going through my head right now, like what if she decides we should carry on as friends for a while and she meets someone else along the way?Also I don't know how I could suppress my feelings for her if we are to remain friends for a while. I know it's for her safety, but how does one suppress feelings of love for someone? It's going to be difficult, but if things do head that way, it's going to be well worth it in the long run, and I guess that's how I'd handle that situation.I just have all these feelings running through my head, and all around me my friends are bragging about how successful their relationships are. One couple just celebrated their 2 year anniversary, one couple just got engaged, one of my friends just got back together with his ex girlfriend of a year ago, another couple have decided to live together, and as usual I'm the one left in the emotional turmoil.It really damages my self-confidence. They keep saying to me that I always seem to end up with the girls who have problems, but it always seems that the girls who have the problems are the only ones worth being with...Do I attract that sort of person?I got lucky when I met this girl, but then my hopes and dreams got shot down and I can't stand the thought of losing it. It's driving me crazy. I love her with all my heart and I don't want to have to throw it away.I'm missing her badly too, and I want to tell her, but I can't because it would make things worse.The main thing is that I want her to know that she'd be safe with me, but I'm scared that she'd see me as making it up just so I'd get to be with her, and then mess her around. I'd never do that to her, but I'm afraid she wont trust me.None of this matters though, because her happiness is second to nothing. Even my feelings come below hers because I care for her that much and I want her to be happy more than anything.I didn't get out of bed till 2pm today because I didn't want to have to face the world. I'm gonna be so scared when my phone rings...

how do you be a friend to someone you love? Just by hanging out, talking, and chilling. No serious talking unless she wants to talk about her problems. Ya know, I want my wife to be my best friend too. Think of it that way.

I have the same problem, I have a friend like this who I believe I love...I feel so crappy thinking about her, she has a b/f, so that drives me nuts, especially since hes in the Navy, and wasn't the best person in School. Anyways...thinking about it makes me totally pissed, and I'm feeling a lot of rage as I type...but...I'm struggling for words right now...All I did was let my tears come, cried, cried, and then I told my good friend...and I started feeling better, but I kept crying, and I still do every once in a while, its so hard and I know...but I'm still here...and Life'll go on...

I've cried once in the last 7 years. It was over a girl... If I could go back in time I'd make sure those tears never fell cuz she wasn't worth it.

Still no word from her. I'm starting to actually feel quite ill over this. I'm very uneasy and my stomach is churning more and more as time goes by.

Sad, take deep breaths. I know your upset,but please try not let this control your life. Dont depend on her or any female to make you happy. Be proud of yourself,and what you've acomplished.
Try and keep busy,do something you enjoy to keep your mind off of things.Dont sit by the phone and think of the worst. I know its hard. But i know youll be ok. Deep down i know youre strong,you made it through the "L" situation and you can make it through this one.
There is nothing wrong with you,.remember that.It takes time to find the ONE. She may be it or she may not be, but you will find her someday,when you least expect it.

Remember... relax, take deep breaths.Youll be ok,even though you cant see it right now.
((HUGS))

it's over...she told me...um......

she's probably so busy with herself right now that she doesn't want you involved. You need to do the same and be able to "find yourself" too.

I don't know what to do now though I've lost all hope. all will to live. I feel like some sort of vegetable, not being able to hold down a relationship past the 7-day mark.Went out tonight and all I saw was happy couples...I can't take it anymoreI'm further back than when I started.I seriously need support right now.