A turn of events

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Well im Happy for ya!!!!Way to go!

Thanks for all the support peeps. :smile:
It really was an amazing night. I can't help but feel like I disappointed her though. But from what she said to me, looks like I made up for it in other ways.

I just hope this isn't going to be a problem for me :frowning:

Well thank you.Things are going well between us. We had a chat about the other night and decided that while we had an amazing time doing what we did, that we need to pace ourselves. Like I say at the time it was a heat of the moment thing, but now it's out of the way we can focus more on the relationship.She really is a special person. This one does feel quite different to my previous "relationships".As for the whole sister situation - it doesn't even seem to be a factor. So far everything seems fine!

Your life has been a true toller coaster, and it seems your at the top of it right now, lets hope it stays there...

I hope so too. She was telling me the reason she doesn't want to rush things is because I'm too important to lose. She has been quite quiet today though, but she's having a hard time at work with a manager who keeps winding her up. Also I'm bogged down with work so it's not the best situation for either of us, but after tuesday things will improve massively

The whole thing is quite an awkward situation, so don't be scared to feel hesitant at all.I'm not saying things can't work out, they can; but I guess what I'm saying is to be careful.

I have that gut feeling that I always get.I sense a change in the force. Usually she'd send me a message or something after she left work, but I've had nothing. My stomach feels knotted, which is how I felt before things went sour with my ex.I could be overreacting because of other factors going on at the moment, like the fact I may be about to fail my university course on the sheer basis that I don't have the transport to get there to hand in my work But I am worried.

It's ok. it was just me being paranoid. Everything is fine!

You must not expect a person to keep a strict schedule, especially in a relationship that hasn't reached a higher level of seriousness.

I don't expect anything. Just I worry too easily. We had a nice long romantic chat though last night It was really nice.I might be seeing her later on today because she said she wanted to see me again asap We're both similar in the respect that we both need to know how we feel about each other. It works quite well actually. In fact, she's approaching this exactly as I am. We're on the same wavelength with everything concerning this.

well, if you don't see her later on today don't freak out. That's what I mean by your "strict scheduling"

But I didn't schedule this? She was the one who asked if she could come over. I'm not sure if she will though because she might be tired, but I don't mind that.

sigh I was using the word scheduling for the lack of a better term. Does anyone get what I'm trying to say?

Sorry man. I'm lost here

i get what you say and i agree with it too

Can you possibly explain it to me Amanda then?

you said she didn't message you or something like that when she normally does, websexinfo meant that you shouldn't make a big deal out of that, as if you're keeping a watchful eye on her, almost controlling

I see. Honestly I have no idea how to act.Whilst during school all the other guys would be with girls, I would have nothing. That's what single sex schools do to you.For 6 years (the most important ones!) I had little to no interaction with females, hence why I'm probably in these messes I get myself into.It also doesn't help that my uni course is extremely sparse in terms of females.It's gonna take some getting used to, but she is the same too, so we can learn off each other.She's acting the same way as me. If I don't talk to her for a while she instantly assumes that I don't like her anymore.We're both in this together and we're gonna make it work

That's a good attitude, sadbuttrue. You're a team now, and teams have to learn how to work together - it doesn't come automatically.

Thanks for the help Amanda.Good to hear things are going well sadbuttrue.