Are you a Pro-life or Pro-choice...

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i think that sums things up darn well, though i will add that life isnt automatically a gift , it is if you make it or if youre able to make it because very rarely does ones life come together perfectly on its own for the duration of their being, what i see as a gift is the chance at greatness and can only hope i can live up to it in some manner

Holy crap! Isn't a big part of your job to work with 'troubled' (for lack of a better word...I hate to use that word) kids? Or do I have you confused with someone else? I am so shocked and angry by your comment.

I'm at a loss... I sure hope I misinterpreted what you said. All I can say right now is, put down the pipe it's fuckin' up your judgement.

2. Caleb's always hurting. Caleb's always down. Caleb's always taking it out on the board. It's time for Caleb to put on his big boy panties and be a man about it. It's time for people to stop mollycoddling Caleb and to start expecting a little more mature behavior from him. You're not doing him any favors. Wow. Very nice. shaking head

C'MON people. This is ridiculous. Everyone knows they have a right to their opinion. Everyone knows that a person who is too opinionated will eventually contradict themselves. Everyone knows you need an asshole in every bunch. And, everyone knows that a suffering soul will seek sympathy from others. STOP BICKERING over this nonsense. I was SUPPOSED tobe an abortion, I was SECONDS from not having been born, and that was just my first brush with death. WHO CARES, IM HERE NOW. Those that werent meant to be here are not here, SIMPLE.A.W. You speak with wisdom. I suggest to keep believing, because we all have to believe in SOMETHING, just be carefull with the M word. It has a connotation of sounding judgemental.

You and me both bobbo I hung out with my dad and his drinking buddies, we used to have people in the 70s show up at the house from fucking 500 miles away because they heard the old man was the best adn they knocked on the door to kick his ass.he always told em the same thing, wait outside, let me grab my tennis shoes, then he proceded to beat the fuck out of them, and send em home. Iv always worked industrial settings where fuck is the most common word youll hear. Its how ym dad talked and his buddies and how I talk, I make no appologies for it, its part of me. I had a violent cuss iflled past. to this day because I look so much like my dad that if Im in a bar especially in my home towna nd I hear some asshole say arent you *****'s kid? I fucking hit them because all but 3 times in atleast 50 thats what they did to me when I said yes. it all goes together, talking tough, acting an ass, swearing and drinking, fucking shipmates man! they belong together.Iv also had to sit in meetings and coduct meetings and be a good boy, it drives me batshit to conduct a whole meeting and not once be able to say "hey fuckhead! listen up, are you a fucking moron? did your parents have and kids that lived?"but I can do it for short periods of time. However my normal behavior and lingo is to call em like I see em and say what I want. I was always told growing up you can talk all the shit you want so long as you back it up when someone calls ya on it.of course my mom told me that if m going to be like my dad then a holes a hole even if its a fucking knot hole in a fence.they divorced long ago I dont think she much likes him.

I grew up in a setting where my mom would find my stepdad's vodka under the sink, dump it and fill it with water, and put it back under the sink. 4 AM I'd hear this loud GOD FUCKING DAMN and it was him sipping on water. Verbal abuse was the norm, with little to no physical. Nigger this, nigger that every day, day in day out. The physical, when it happenned, also had very uplifting words. My mom would wait with a broomstick for my dad to come home, then, "WHACK!" right over the skull with a few choice words to follow.I don't cuss, not in public, I do on here but that's for the effect. I don't fight, unless someones being confrontational with me and even then I'll let them throw the first punch. I pretty much don't act the way I should, compared to how I grew up. Now, when I do get anry (My Chinese Zodiac is the Ox) then I charge, and there is no holding back, but this is very rare. I know this is not typical, but you dont have to live as a product of how you were raised. You just don't. I'd be dead in a ditch somewhere or in a senseless gang if I'da followed my life path.

You dont have to live the way you were raised, that is true enough, but if your comfortable in it, then its so easy to slip into and be that way. My dad never hit my mom, or her him, but there was plenty of yelling, mostly about who he had fucked most recently. I on the other hand have never in my life cheated on anyone. My current will be wife Iv been with for fuck I dont knwo how long, shes been living with me for 3 years and we were together for a year or so before she moved in with me 4 years maybe? 4 1/2? we have never had a yell at each other fight, or ever had any physical violence between us. We have had argumetns, who the fuck hasnt? disagreements, but that the worst of it and very rare to have that.The only reason I think I never ended up in a gang is because untill recently it wasnt prominent in my area. had I been born in 91 instead of 71 I may well of ended up in that shit.with that being said Ill also state that a gang is for pussys too scared to stand alone and take responsability for thier own actions and own lives. Least thast how I feel about it.Fuck em.Dadums moved out when I was 8 and they divorced. It had a better effect on me than them staying together.less fighting, no screaming, suddenly I saw my dad on a regular basis instead of jsut when he came home drunk from the bars and fighting and fucking who ever he could talk into giving up some tail at the time. swearing is part of who I am, for good or for ill, so is violence but not indiscriminate violence, thers a reason for it when I get in to it. We are a product of our environments, just to what degree is determined by us and while you turned form yours and became a better person above all the shit, I embraced it and reveled in it.Know the real bitch of it?when you get older and wish shit was differnt, wish that you didnt have to do this or that just because of its expected of you? that when you found out if you made the right choice 30 fucking years ago or not.what a bitch. Id change some shit if I could go back, since I cant I jsut keep on going with the flow.

Oooh, George Carlin! This guy says everything that I want to say, but he's smarter, funnier and a hell of a lot wiser!Sanctity of LifeAbortionAnd completely unrelated but as damn funny and smart as hell, STUFF!

my grand uncle tried to convince my mom to abort me because I would be another flawed American screwing up the "oh so precious and sacred" Brazilian blood line. All hail Hapha aka Hitler in disguise. And then the ugly mother trucker wanted her to put me up for adoption and legally disown me as a grand niece. I SHALL become dictator of this world and he will be the first I go after.

It's called racism and nationalism.....

OK Chaka....

Zulu.

He too was tormented as a child, but rose to power and sruck down on his childhood enemies with great force, mainly left them to die on a stake.

Rent the 3 part mini if you haven't yet.

I don't think I could ever do anything bad to my unc, despite how cruel he is. I say things I wish I could do, but I know it's wrong and I don't have the means to do it anyway.

You mean you don't have any pre-sharpened stakes in your backyard for the type of revenge you seek to avoid?

Shiiii...I do.