With all due respect to the fascinating and highly informative answers you've been given (kidding, you guys and girls are the best), there's really no good answer to your question. Basically, you're dealing with someone's feelings in that situation and if you don't feel the same, it's going to be tough. I'm sorry, but i think kissing and ignoring the statement is a cop-out. If you care enough fo the person to be with them, you should care enough to be honest. If you don't feel the same way at that moment, you should let them know....and if you hoped to get laid at that moment and it doesn't happen because of your honesty, that's just the price you have to pay to avoid the possible complications of dishonesty, later.Sorry, but that's my advice.
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I love u?
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Thats fine if you want to be "honest", but should the person be a chicken shit (theres no shame in it) and want to avoid the situation, then I think the kissing-spin works pretty well.
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Glad I have no interest in kissing you, bob, or anything else for that matter
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But I want to kiss you...
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Oh yes it does, CR. Love means looking after someone who is vomiting all over the place. It means being happy to be with someone. It means feeling another's pain. It makes people do things they wouldn't otherwise do, and thank goodness for that.
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That was beautifuly said! Thank God for love!!
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Sometimes "love" makes people hurt, rape and kill.
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That's not love, that's unhinged obsession.
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But its all done in the name of love.
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Yea... in the name! Not actually "love"!
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Just say, thanks I love me too. My ex used to say it all the fucking time and used to bitch that I wouldnt say it back then I just gave in and said it because I couldnt be bothered with her shat. Then when I broke up with her it was like "but i thought you loved me". Now shes "in love" with her new BF too. Some people just love fucking everyone, I wish I could be so oblivious.
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Well, there is always the man who loved his children so much that after an argument with his wife, he decided to jump off a 50 foot balcony with them, killing his son(6) and badly injuring his daughter(2).
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That wasn't love, even if he thought it was. Love should look to the happiness of others first. In his case it looks more like selfish possessiveness.
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In reply to:
love is just a word that means fuck
swallow is just a word that means love
i'd change swallow to pain and yea.... but i wasn;t trying to start mnothign i was just saying wut i thought.
Ineligible i've had this talk with u so many times. the problum with the word love is the people that say it don;t mean it withc means the word don;t mean anything cuz when some one says it it's a lie. A lie to get u to fuck them. to get wut she wants.
she told me she loved me then fucked up my life.
love is a lie
she told me she loved me then fucked up my heart.
love is a lie
He told her he loved her ...and they fucked.
love is a lieIn reply to:
looking after someone who is vomiting all over the place. It means being happy to be with someone. It means feeling another's pain. It makes people do things they wouldn't otherwise do, and thank goodness for that.
^ not love... thats caring.
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In reply to: Ineligible i've had this talk with u so many times. the problum with the word love is the people that say it don;t mean it withc means the word don;t mean anything cuz when some one says it it's a lie. A lie to get u to fuck them. to get wut she wants. It isn't ruined for everybody. I've only told one person 'I love you' romantically and I mean it every time I've said it. In the past I've not said it when a girl said it to me, the consequences weren't pretty but it was for the best.I was once a cynic about love too, but then someone came along who changed my whole perception of it, maybe that person just hasn't come yet for you.Fuck, I'm such a girl.
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In reply to:Fuck, I'm such a girl. arn't u a guy tho?
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Yea, that's the problem.
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I remember laying in bed with one of my exes and having an odd conversation. We have both been hurt in the past and saying "I love you" was kinda scary to both of us. It kinda went like...Her : "I'm won't be scared to say it to you anymore."Me : "What?"(She pulls me to her)Her : "I love you"(Pause)Me : "I think I love you"Her : "You THINK you love me?"Me : "Yeah, how are you so sure you love me?"Which led into a deeper conversation. Sometimes, I think it's better to hear the reason why rather than the simple word.As far as the rest of this thread. It seems everyone is trying to answer the everlasting question.What is love?Love is an idea that is different from person to person. Can we base love on our feelings? Can we base it on chemicals released by the brain? There is no concrete answer. But I can say that I feel that I've fallen in love once.
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may I also claim the right to be a bit jaded on the whole matter?for over 11 and a half years... yes I DID infact hold her while she puked. I also held her while she cried, while she came and while she was giving birth to our child. Yet, she still decided I was the epitome of evil, which gave her the excuse to find solice from others."There ain't no cure for love" ??? you bet your fucking ass there is!
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I think you need to talk to Yoda.
