Does it gross u out???

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It doesn't gross my guy out apparently. See I never wanted to have sex etc during it, because I thought he would think it was icky. But we ended up having sex yesterday during it, but my flow must have been pretty light at the time because there was no mess or blood. He said he wouldn't have minded if there had been a mess though, he expected it. Now sometimes during my period I wouldn't want to fool around.

Actually now that you put it in context it sounds familla. That's not where I hurd it though.And, Classy Black woman, It's sposta be sexest, I think that's why it's funny.

Been there, done that, not going back again (unless by accident...once you're past a certain point it's gonna happen regardless). It's not the blood itself that turns me off...it's the smell. Some guys don't smell anything...more power to 'em, I guess. But I've been blessed (or cursed) with a sensitive nose. Smell is bigtime important to me, period or not...which has been an unwelcomed obstacle in the past.

It's actually a Roy Chubby Brown joke, the man is sexist, but, if you take it as a bit of light humour, he can be very funny... IMO life is to short to take such things seriously, if you don't have a sense of humour about things, you'll never smile!Dan

If a girl is on a heavy flow day, does the guy even feel it? I have never asked, I mean I guess he does if he comes, but for me, the blood just made it too slippery and I didn't feel it that much...Not to mention all the clean up.YUCK!

Yeah...I ruined a mattress once. As somebody mentioned, best done in a bathtub or somewhere (out in the woods, for example) where you don't have to worry about cleaning it up. As for feeling it or not, I'd say it depends on the girl more than whether she's on her period or not.

My experience has been the opposite - when a tampon has just been taken out she tends to be rather dry inside.

Not all girls use those, you know...perhaps a solution for some?

thanks for all of your replies...its kinda weird we did try it and there really wasnt anyblood. it seemed kinda like the flow stoped durring the process...but started again like an hour or so later, so there was vertualy no mess. i was pretty happy bout that....i would have been none to pleased if i had to give up snuggle time to clean up

I'm fine with having sex while my parnter is having her period, and so is she (as long as she knows I'm fine with it). We haven't missed a day in months, and period days are no exception.Regarding the mess as some have posted, it really isn't a problem for us. Yeah there's a little blood on the bed covers, but it washes out and it's no worse than a semen stain.I suppose during the heavy part of her period we just keep it confined to the bed so we don't have the 'mess' anywhere else around the house.

ummmm, I've done it before but it's because she didn't tell me, and i didn't notice untill, well blood got all over the sheets..and it kinda made me really sick.if she would told me i would've waited untill it was over...or just did anal(jk) i can wait a week.

Sometimes, when a girl is younger or if she has irregular periods, it's hard to tell when her period is coming. I'm sure she would have told you if she knew.

Sometimes also the act of intercourse itself can bring on a period that wouldnt have started otherwise for some time, from hours to a day or two, so maybe you were more responsible for the mess than she was.

Haha, good point Starfish.I don't know about anyone else, but the one birth control pill I was on made my periods very light. So it was never a big issue.

I've had sex while I've been on my period before.. and I found what you did - the blood kinda stops. I think it might be due to the natural lube that you produce, maybe watering it down a little? ponders It bothers me having sex when I first start my period, when its pretty heavy, but after a couple of days its not so bad

It's really no big deal...I don't think most guys are "grossed out by it"....

It can also help relieve some of the pains from cramping I find. Also due to the cramps I think I find I am more tender inside, that the guy has to be more gentle. The shower is the best place for this...all the bad stuff washes away and no worries about making a mess somewhere.

Sounds like a plan

Originally Posted By: fallen_angelIt can also help relieve some of the pains from cramping I find. could this count for fingering or just intercourse?

if the feeling is there, then it's all good with me