How to finger a girl

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this is probably a really stupid question... but whats g-spot mean? like where is it?

i think this is dumb but are you supposed to like unbutton her pants first or just slide your hand down?

ive never done either...but im pretty sure most here would say....it depends on the girl...if you want to be slightly more discrete about it...then just slide down pants....but if you just dont care...then go ahead and undress her

just remember to make sure she is comfortable with it before you try...and if she is its easy from there you just have to talk to her just say somthin like "you gotta tell me wat feels good" or "does that feel good" trust me i just did it the other night...it went perfectly fine!

In reply to: allright yeah so, im going ot my girlfreinds house soon, and i kinda want to finger her, sept i dunno what to do.. like while were making out or whatever, i dont know how to excel up to fingering her. i mean i dont just put my hands down her pants outta nowhere. i wanna make it smooth. haha, yeah so what do i do??? thanks yall! When your with a girl you haven't fingered yet, it's good to test the waters first.First, you want to get her hot and bothered. Make out with her, breast play, massaging her "area" with your shin or knee etc. When you start to "test the waters", generally what I do first is grab her crotch outside of the pants and massage it that way. Once I've done that and if she doesn't say anything negative, that's when I move to the rim of her pants and play with the skin right above the lining of her pants. Do this for about 5 seconds and if she doesn't respond with anything negative, slowly put your hand down her pants... if her pants are too tight, then unbutton it and move you hand down there. Generally, don't take off her pants right away when it's the first time.I've also done this little trick... I'm about 6'2" so my arm length really helped with this move. First, making out with my girl, I slowly started to slip my hands down the back of her pants to grab her ass. Keep moving down her ass and grabbing it. If you continue to grab lower, you can play with her vaginal lips from reaching behind her. If she doesn't respond negatively, then go ahead and go on with the fingering. caution This position can really cramp your hand up, but hey guys sometimes ya gotta sacrifice for your girl. lol. This move has been referred to as "the sneak attack".

In reply to: just incase its not though, how much would a girl bleed? cause im not sure if mines broken and ive been told it could be..but i dont want to get blood on my clothes incase its not Some girls have more blood than others. I don't think the hymen itself bleeds all that much. It might just look like you're spotting.

In reply to: this is probably a really stupid question... but whats g-spot mean? like where is it? Think about a penis that's shriveled up into a small tube. Lots and lots of nerve endings. In actuality, that tube of nerve endings exists in a woman. One end of it is the clit. The other end of it is where the g-spot lies.Depending on the woman, it can lie at different depths of the vagina. Generally, it's between 2 and 4 inches in 'stomach side'. So if you're standing in front of a girl and she's naked, you insert you fingers with you palm up and put it in about 3 inches, you'll be either on or near the money.

When I'm getting fingered or recieving oral, i never really found out what to do with my hands, i don't just want to look dead. What do I do?

you dont really need to do anything with your hands...if your concerned about "looking dead", just make sure your moaning or something that will make your guy feel like he's doing a good job

depends on how tight her pants are my girl usually downs wear a belt so its really easy but with her pants off is so much better

Yeah, just laying there could be a turn off to a lot of guys. Move your hips to what you like. If you really want to rev him up, play with your breasts and use nipple play. My ex-girlfriend loved to grasp onto my hair. She pulled on it a little hard and it hurt, but some guys really like that kind of thing. My current girlfriend usually pulls my head into her and holds onto her forehead or bangs onto the wall whenever I decide to "hit the spot".

Well see, I did this for the first time a few weeks ago, and she wasn't affected, at least I don't think she was, and I know for a fact she is a Virgin, but any good tips for a girl that likes a little roughness in this?

when youre fingering a girl ALWAYS USE LIKE LUBRICATION OR SOMETHING cause it makes the experience SOOOOOOOOOO much better and enjoyable, well anyways go in real slow like and when you find the hard thing wiggle your fingers and watch her she will tell you if it feels good or not-maybe not verbally-and than dont really bring it out until you are done cause you dont wanna brake or injure anything!

A girl can be lubricated enough by her own juices. Too much lubrication won't turn out to be all that pleasurable.

well i dont knw much abut fingerin but once my bf told me that i should try doin it once jst to get the feel of it since i have neva done it before and i told him there is no way in hell I would do somethin like that its disgustin but he said it will show me hw it will feel like but i still havnt done it yet! i dont get wat it is so important to try something like this for? or maybe i'm jst embressed

Why do you think it's disgusting? What's the difference between you fingering yourself and him fingering you?

i neva had any one do that to me thats y.. and y do we have to fingure our selves for?

You don't have to. For most women it is pleasurable as there are a large mass of nerves in your vagina. I'm not exactly sure what you find disgusting about sticking a finger in your vagina when for sex you will have a penis inserted in there. A finger is safer and can be done far more discretely.

well a fingure is ok but the penis that name scares me some hw :blush:

Well its ok to be scared, the thought of what it is and what its gonna do can make any girl a bit nervous. When written down on paper it can seem like a very painful act and sometimes it can be if not properly.