How to finger a girl

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what do i do whenn fingering a girl plz tell me in full detail for what to do with my finger do i just stick it ina nd pull it out??

You start out slow, and look for something that feels hard Then when she is into it you gently give her a shocker

No no no..don't just thrust and retract. The finger is significantly thinner then the normal penis. And since most of the nerves are near the opening of the vagina, fingering and thrusting are sort of, but not entirely, useless. Tease her, go slow so you can get her arroused, and just go by what she expresses. There is not code or handbook on how to finger a girl, just like there is no rule on how to give guys fellatio. Just takes practice. Practice, practice, and more effing practice. I assume you're doing this on your girlfriend? If that is the case, do it as often as you both would like, but practice your little fingers off.

How about fingering a girl for HER first time?? What to do then?? Any different?

I wouldn't see how it would be any different...Maybe a little bit slower, since she will definately be tighter. Just practice...lol can't reiterate it enough...very few guys are pro right out of the gates.

No newbie here!! lol Jus wondered what everyones thought was on it!!

um, hello? what about her clit? especially if she hasnt been fingered before, you want to be extra gentle and not necessarily thrust you finger up her hole, it can be a wee bit painful, especially if shes tight-read the notice at the top-the truth about the female anatomy, you'll have a wee bit of a clearer understanding, good luck

Well its always nice to get the female perspective. Its pretty obvious she knows what she is talking about. Why not just ask her? Hopefully she knows what she likes, and if she doesn't, she'll definitely know if it feels good or not. Not I know some girls don't always like teaching us everything, but it doesn't necessarily have to be a long and deep conversation. Everybody gets lucky sometimes, but it seems foolish to me to depend on luck when you've never done something before. She doesn't have to draw you a map hopefully, but I'm sure she could show you the "correct" way.

ok.. if its her first time, be gentle.. cus she hasn't had penetration yet, except for a tampon. so ur fingers may do something. so be easy, try to be lubricated.. move around on the outside, stimulate the clitoris until she's wet. it hurts for the woman if its dry, far as i kno. when ur inside, don't thrust.. instead, slide it in slowly, slide it out slowly. try to immitate a penis (maybe..) I tend to immitate a snake slowly making its way around. when ur inside, try to go as deep as possible, and twiddle ur fingertips.. after some experience, i realized they like that. feel around for an object all the way in the back, feels something like a bone. as far as i kno, thats their g-spot. if its not, it sure as hell is good spot! twiddle around in the back and around that bone thing. slowly ease it out (long strokes), and ease it back in.. lather rinse and repeat what i also kno is that u might be in there for a while, so ur fingers will get tired.. listen to her breathing, watch her facial expressions according to watever u do. use it as a signal to back off, or ATTACK!!!!

Ok! Thnx for the tip, so go in slow n out slow. Thats what i was planning to do, but i didnt kno i could go that deep for a first timer??

wat is fallatio?

Fellatio is sucking a guy's penis.

ok i wouldnt say go 'in and out' no matter how slowly you are going, if you do go in, reach your finger up to her G spot and rub that for a bit if you can bcos if you constantly go in and out of her hole you wont have the desired effect even if you do touch the G spot for a split second, however i would concentrate more on her clit as i said before, dont do this fast vibration action as soo many men do wrongly, i dont know maybe they re trying to imitate a vibrater or something! but slow circular moves are good, if she doesnt come quickly dont soley focus on the clit. go up and down the vagina, EXPLORE and then come back, bcos women can get a bit sore down there if your working on them for agees and it kinda doesnt work if you start thinking it as a chore thinking 'hmmm i really wish she comes soon!' kinda thing, just take your time and if she doesnt come for the first time really dont fret because im sure she would have liked it anyway, good luck

with my first gf.. i found that she did get sore really fast, but it was really hard for me to tell either that or i kinda got carried away, with it . Not really sure. i was just wonderin though wat if the girl is a virgin, if u finger too deep do u break her and have a bloody mess on ur hands! (excuse da pun)

while fingering, lick her clit with ur tounge at the same time... finger slow and all the way in... but becareful not to hit hard on the end, because it's very sensitive... ask her how she likes it and mildly add speed and ask what she rather likes~~

kinda reminds me of pinning the tail on the donkey

you play pin the tail on the donkey a very strange way

dont just go in and out you also want to rub it and dont rub the clit directly though a lot of girls dont really like that apply pressure in the general area and rub up and down this works espeacially well on a virgin also it works a lot better to use ur middle finger

i am going to ask this girl out and i have never been with a girl before and i know that she will want to do new things that i have never done before like lick he pussy and finger her but i do not know how can some one please help me and tell me wat to do??

You're getting ready to ask a girl out for the first time ever, and you're worried about how you're going to please her sexually? Don't you think you're jumping the gun a bit?I'd suggest reading this thread from the top, and continuing down until you hit your own post. Also, do a search on something like fingering. There are other threads on the subject on this site.