Originally Posted By: Ineligible
I think you misunderstand, Virtual_Star. Jase is asking about gay men who nevertheless marry women (for whom they have no sexual attraction). This actually happens a lot.
Yeah, thanks Ineligible. At first, I had a hard time reading his post because it wasn't grammatically readable. But he edited his post three times and I finally got it.
Originally Posted By: flyer_f
I diagree with most of the other posters. If you want a hustband/wife/kids family, then you should get to have it, regardless of being gay.
But the problem I see is he's going to mislead some poor woman into marriage just because he wants a family. I think it's great he wants kids, but to deceive someone to get it? To be frank, that's pretty fucked up. He should let her know what his intentions are, but I don't know how that's going to work, if at all.
I don't know about everyone else, but my definition of marriage is two people, regardless of gender, declairing their love for each other and their committment to go through life together as a whole. I can't imagine the pain when someone turns around and says, "I didn't marry you because I love you".
His decision is based on his religion. I got a lot to say about that, but I'll keep my mouth shut for once. And I don't feel comfortable giving advice on how to have sex with someone whom you have no feelings for.
I'm with kmrobins. I believe half of sex is in your head. If something is troubling your mind, it's defintely going to affect one's sex life.